Do you prefer fantasy or reality and why?

for me it is both. at night i let my mind wonder so that i can get to a good fantasy and fall asleep comfortably. but usually during the day i have to be focused and on top of things. i like to drift while i am in the shower. maybe something to do while i am washing my hair i dont know. unfortunatly my fantasies - and i know some of you will relate - i dream of being a mutant. like an x-men or a super hereo. i usually think that i am Jade- a mutant with the ablity to make others not see or hear me. not that i go invisable just that i can turn off their senses. i always thought that would be a great mutant power to have. the other times i am trying to live in my characters shoes. you see i send alot of time writing and i just finished writing a chapter which i will turn into a graphic novel here not too soon, - this fantasy is what usually takes up most of my time. since it takes alot more work to see everything and know exactly what is going on with it. Anyways.

I tend to have my feet firmly on the ground especially being an Earth sign but I have a friend who is Piscean and yes she lives very much in a fantasy land a lot of the time, is also very emotional too. Ellie :D

I'm more of two, means, i live my fantasy and my reality... and they don't interfere with each other in an any negative way.. i love to dream , and fantasize things can't be real. but at the same time.. I know that it's just a dream, and try on making my real life some how close to that dream, without disturbing the natural harmony of fiction and none fiction!

I like to daydream, but have not been able to do so since I became a mother! It takes time and while I may dream, I do not do so as often as I did when I was a child!

i prefer fantasy coz i always fantasize things.

I like both of them accord to diffirent environment.

When I was younger I lived in my own fantasyworld too. When I got older I outgrew it, but I like to daydream once in a while. Have a nice day

Hey.I am cancer who would never let go the past.Is that sort of fantasy?although it was past,but i just think abouth it all the time.lol. But now i know life goes on and i must look forward. but sometimes day dreaming is good .lol.

hi koharukusumi..i like living in the real world.. p/s:do you have a boyfriend koharukusumi??lol..

I prefer fantasy over reality because there, life has no limits; no boundaries. You are free to go to a world of your own, without anyone stopping you to do so. You can do whatever you like and you can imagine things for the sake of it. I really love dreaming of an alternate universe.

i'm a scorpio. don't know if that means anything to this discussion but i think i'm a very realistic and practical person. though i love fantasy stories because for awhile at least i'm relieved of the stress the reality is giving me. lol

Hey,kusumi.Of course I believe in reality.I don't like to dream and I prefer to set a goal then achieve it in the shortest time.I don't know whether it is related to the star signs,by the way,I am a Gemini.I think you can be described as a "otaku" in Japanese.Because "otaku"s are always lost in their own world and don't care about the rest of the society and usually they have diffculty in communicating with others,just like your situation.

Sometimes I become so embedded in my own way of thinking that I cannot differentiate between my reality and another. Even so, this is still my reality, even though others may think it a fantasy. Likewise, what others consider their reality, to me, is a fantasy land. You seem to indicate a similar way of being.