life is not a bed of roses
By Lenka1983
@Lenka1983 (9)
China
July 6, 2008 9:05am CST
Life is not a bed of roses. This is what I learned from my difficult time in 2008. I haven't find a job for nearly one year.
There is a very popular saying in my country" you are unemployed as soon as you graduated from your colledge.I was a lucy person. I hadn't had the difficult time at that time.
Unfortunately,I am unlucky now. After I've graduated from university for three years. I can't find a job to afford myself for my daily life.
What happened to me? I like to change my job. I always can't put myself into the sutible place of this socity. I always think life is a bed of roses.
I can't face to the reality.
I was born from a small family. One apple one family. I had a very happy childhood. I didn't need to worry about anything, cause my parents always protect me by their wings.
But now I have to face to myself. The only enermy to me in this world is myself.
4 responses
@Jhordie (5115)
• Philippines
6 Jul 08
IT IS REALLY NOT A BED OF ROSES... if it is... maybe ROSES WITH THORNS! I understand where you are coming from and I myself experience that as well. I do hope all the best will turn towards your direction... JUST HAVE FAITH because everything HAPPENS FOR A REASON... we may think that it is such a cruel thing at the moment but if you closely look unto it... YOU'LL SEE WHAT GOD HAS PLAN FOR YOU that will MAKE YOU EVEN MORE HAPPY SOMEDAY... just wait til you see His WORK OF ART IN YOU which is YOUR LIFE!
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@Lenka1983 (9)
• China
10 Jul 08
Thank you Jhordie, you are right. Every time when I am in blue, I tell myself"Lenka,don't just look at what happened to you now, think about the future.If you can work hard on today, then you can get a different tomorrow. If you do nothing now, you will still be upset tomorrow. And that means life will never be changed. Am I right?
I eventually make one thing clear that everyone in this worl should be fighting with their life.
@rosema (1145)
• Philippines
6 Jul 08
Hi lenka1983, welcome to mylot, i hope you will enjoy here, you are right, life is really not a bed of roses. when we are young, we dont think of a problem, we just think how to enjoy because we have our parents who give us what we need. but now is differentm we need to stand by our selves, we need to strive hard in order to be alive. thanks and i hope you defeat your enemy, lol. have a nice day.
@Lenka1983 (9)
• China
10 Jul 08
Dear rosema, thank you very much. I start my life here from now on. I hope it could not only help me improve my English, but also open another window in my life. Have a nice day. My dear friend. I love your picture.
@academic2 (7000)
• Uganda
10 Jul 08
I am sorry about that Lenka, dont lose hope, hope is our greatest weapon in this hard world-you will need it to keep trying with some kind of resilience-which country do you come from? I would be glad to share with you some of the things I do to earn money offline, very soon I will not need any employment! So contact me at oolagabni@yahoo,com and we share ideas!
@twistershot (736)
• India
10 Jul 08
My dear friend now you come to know the reality of life, how long your family or anyone else will save their wings, no one it will automatically come to you to get rid of your all problems with your own way, some times young people think that all the time run in the same way, but these all happen by childhood, when you slowly grow up society will teach you every thing, whatever you lost you can get within short period, it's upto you how to get these all things with your own efforts and willing, just make step in positive way and take the name of god, then all problems will solve very soon, don't feel you are alone we all here from mylot members to give moral support to grow up, and do your work as much as time here for earning little extra money and getting good suggestion from mylot.