Do you believe in Soulmate?
By MaeTsuen
@MaeTsuen (257)
Philippines
July 6, 2008 9:09pm CST
well i am not sure if i would believe it or not. In my case i don't know if my fiance is my soulmate or just plain he is meant for me. My story goes this way i had a boyfriend way back sophomore year after a few months we broke up. then i said to myself next thing i will fall in love i will make sure he is the one im going to marry. Then on my 1st year in college, i met him. As we were enjoying each other's company as friends.... i asked for a sign if he's the one. My 1st ever white rose, 1 stalk and that's it. On our organization party he brought me home... then gave me 1 white stalk flowers. Before that, as we were talking often as i got to know him better i actually told myself. I want this guy to be my husband in the future. I hardly knew him we were just like going out for like a month. But hey maybe he is my soulmate, also meant for each other we are still together until now, it's been 7 years already and counting. Wedding will come soon. =)
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18 responses
@magojordan (3252)
• Philippines
7 Jul 08
I believe that there is one person that really understands us no matter how complicated we are. That person too is the only one who you could really get along very well. That's my concept of a soulmate but I don't believe that soulmates are usually lovers. They could be your best friends or even your family. Personally that's how I see soulmates.
@mescue (64)
• United States
7 Jul 08
Your response floored me..in a GOOD way. You said it better then I could have ever worded it!
@CustomSupraRZ (1)
• United States
7 Jul 08
Wow. I agree with what the person before me said. That is the single best description i have ever read.
@lanyoublue2008 (882)
• China
7 Jul 08
Yes, I believe ,when you would like yourself to get success, you should believe in your soulmate!Then ,the dream will become the truth!
@carrotcake14 (361)
• Philippines
7 Jul 08
Oh my... I really like your love story. Wish i also have a fate like that. I do believe in soul mate that there's only one person in this world that is created just for us.I'm hoping he'll come my way too soon.....
@cbreeze (1205)
• United States
7 Jul 08
I disagree. Just because of free will. I believe God has a purpose for us in our lives, but I think our free will allows us to marry whomever we want. However, maybe that's why so many relationships fail; because we have missed the person God intended for us.
@kisanchhantyal (420)
• Nepal
8 Jul 08
you need to think alot and are you prepare for the marriage and know your soul mate in you level in any case i mean health wealth education and thoughts
I think the latest guy can be your soul mate for that you need to increase your love and know him for the very near.
@TessWhite (3146)
• United States
8 Jul 08
Actually no I don't believe in soul mates. For a couple of reasons. First because I believe in reincarnation having a soul mate would mean that soul has to follow mine around from life to life. That would get dull. LOL Also, at my current age of 48 I can say that I have been in love twice so far. I suppose when I was younger I thought there could only be one true love. But as you get older you come to realize it is quite possible to love more than one person in your lifetime.
@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
8 Jul 08
I believe there is love and being in love, two different things, I also believe in soulmates but I think ordinary love sometimes tricks us but if we can get past all the little loves in our life and wait for real love we often find out soulmate, I think a lot of people do miss out oin it as they done't wait long enough, but I do believe there is such a thing.
@MrNiceGuy (4141)
• United States
7 Jul 08
I don't believe in soulmates or true love. I just don't think that there would be a chance that two people in the entire world over all of history find each other and fall in love. I think love is a fluid dynamic bond between people that can grow and dissolve, it isn't some magical fate.
What are the chances teh one person in the world that is right for you will cross your path and become your partner? Those odds are terrible, compromise is the key component of love.
@cbreeze (1205)
• United States
7 Jul 08
I'm not sure whether I believe in soulmates or not. I think there are a few men that I have had relationships with that I could have been with forever if they had have applied the same amount of effort into it as I did. So If I have a soulmate, I still haven't found him. But I would love to feel that way about someone.
@calajane (1003)
• Poland
7 Jul 08
I did give this topic a lot of thought when I was writing my article about soulmates for helium (http://www.helium.com/items/1080872-search-for-soul-mate if you're interested) and when I think about it again now, because of your discussion, I still can't believe that soulmates exist. I'm happy that you are happy. It's really great that you have found somebody you love and who loves you back. I simply refuse to think he's the only person in the whole world that would ever make you happy. That said, good luck with the wedding and all the best wishes :)
@tivonshi (110)
• China
7 Jul 08
Hi,
congratulation.You find a guy whom you really really love.
I believe in soulmate.But I know,it's difficult to find the guy who is your soulmate.Maybe you can't find him/her for ever.
But you know,more rare,more precious.
So,if you really love him and you think he is your soulmate, just be kind with him and treasure him.
@azn_boo (36)
• United States
7 Jul 08
No, I don't believe in soulmate. It just happened that you and your ex-boyfriend(now your husband) had past and happy memories together back in sophomore year and still love for each other. Those memories brings you and your husband back together. Bringing back happy or sad memories make us laugh and enjoy to remember.
@rochakrs (36)
• India
7 Jul 08
it is just a matter of feeling .if u feel a releation with someone from bottom of heart it make a heartual feeling without any reason.so when our eyes loves someone without know much more about him/her than our heart is ready to capture that person always in front of eyes.
@jasyjen (162)
• United States
7 Jul 08
That is beautiful! I would love to think there is a soulmate for everyone, but if so I never found mine. I am married and my husband is definately NOT my soul mate. I wonder if I met mine if I would know it? And if so, would I leave my husband for him? I doubt that I would.
@eltmin (143)
• Malaysia
7 Jul 08
I am not sure about your definition of soul mate, but for me, a soul mate is someone I can talk anything and everything to, one that may not have to share a lot of common interests, but shares the same views most of the time. And someone that know what I am talking about, before I even finish my sentence.
I believe, because I have found one. And we have been living together for 7 years as well. To us, marriage is not a big deal but being able to be together is.
Good luck, and congratulations on your coming wedding.
@jenseyedea (579)
• United States
7 Jul 08
I dont know if I believe in soulmates. I guess I think there are a lot of people who could be compaible with one another. I think it is a lot like friendships, you can have more than one friend. They all have different personalities and different quirks, a lot like people we have relationships with. I guess you just have to decide how compatible you are...and how much you will let go of in your relationships. I think back on other relationshps and think about the qualites that different men have had. Some much better than others. I think how I could pick them apart and put together the perfect man...lol.
@jeiyah_12 (1041)
• Philippines
7 Jul 08
yes, I do believe in soulmates... I find him already but sad to say... we aren't together... It's quite a really strange story on how we first saw one another and how we saw each other again. It is really strange... I thought we belong in the completely different world but destiny make us meet....
@ieeko89 (1054)
• Malaysia
7 Jul 08
Aawww:) Very sweet. I do believe in soulmate. I met my current bf through this one site, Myspace. Actually we've been schooling since we're 13y/o. But none of us know we're actually exist. And we met through Myspace. And since that, we get close, and we're dating till we end our high school. At first i thought he's not the one for me. But then i did something stupid and broke his heart. And yet, he is still chasing me. IF other guys, i guess they would probably leave me and never come back. But he did not. And since that case, I knew he's the one:) And now it's been 3 years and still counting. Next march, we're 4years;D
