Nine(9) Secrets of my Parents

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I'm so lucky to have a parents like I have now. They raised us well. And even how busy they are in their work,they always see to it that they still have time for us. They are very responsible devoted and hard-working. Always corrected us during our misbehaving acts. They also finds time to listen and ask what we want and what we feel and what we don't like. Let me share to you the 9 secrets my parents applied to us. It was written by Shirley M. Pizzaro. 1.Do be a good example to your children - Don't be a preacher who does not do what he says or acts. 2. Do provide for them- Provide them not with material things only. But with love and understanding. Give them what they need, but don't spoil them 3. Do discipline them - It's not enough/advisable to spank/whip them when they commit mistakes. the bottom line "getting the message across to them". properly tell them why you did not want them to do this/that. Children should understand why it's not proper to misbehave. 4. Do be patient with them - Children are inquisitive. Full of questions. very active. If you have a short temper, you should not married. Patience is the key to raise a happy and intelligent child. 5. Do provide a home where they can find happiness and contentment. - Let them feel that it is not only a place where we are protected from the extreme heat of the sun or heavy rain. A home where we sleep, eat or rest but as well a home where happiness and contentment dwell also. Let them see and feel that this is a place of refuge when they have problems. 6. Do listen to what your children have to say- their fears,likes,dreams,etc. - Constant communication is very important. Communication gap be avoided if they keeps open line. Do not monopolize the discussion; give your child a chance to talk. 7. Do be genuinely interested in your children's undertaking and be generous with your support for them. - Children's accomplishments, even simple,should be appreciated. We must always help them whenever they need us. 8. Do be honest to them. - Tell them the real facts, don't allow them to expect what is impossible. Always be honest to your child. 9. Do enjoy your children - No matter how busy you are, you should find time to be with them. Make child rearing a happy activity on your part and of your child. If possible, engage worthwhile activities with the. So, there you have it...Hope this would be of help..Have a nice day Mom and Dad...