Girls courting men

A guy like me would say ... of course its not nice to look at that a girl courting men.. c'mon, even though this is the 20th century... the millenium era, still, we honor traditions and old customs... and that would be ... men should always make the first move. Nowadays, its just so hard that men gets busted. So sometimes, some men just wait for girls to make their first move on them... as a result, men get satisfied... but other times, other men get unlucky.

Girl courting man. I don't encourage that and I will never like that. It's a shame for a girl to put down her level. Where is the self-respect if a girl does that kind of thing. She is the one who is supposed to be pursued and courted. How can she expect the man to respect her. A woman should know where she should stand, what are her limitations and what she should not do. Is is not a joy for a woman to be pursued and courted?

I am a bit old fashioned and think it would be rather uncomfotable for such a situation but what is a women to do, what until the man makes the move! Life is too short for women to wait for someone, one needs to just get out there and get it! I have this line that says the worst a women can say to me is no. GO! The worst thing he can say to you is no. What are you waiting for!

Hi darlene06, Maybe in your part that is an awkward act. But there are some who think that this is just an expression of what they really feel. I really am looking forward for a girl who is brave enough to court me. Hahaha.

As a guy, I don't see anything wrong about girls courting the person they like. For me I don't mind if I see new basketball snickers on office desk everyday. But of course likes guys, girls have a possibility to be turned down so make yourself ready to what might happen. Just remember every person has the right to express their feelings and what their likes. Life is to short, so whatever makes you feel happy, go and live with it.