the first time...
By someqian
@someqian (4)
China
July 7, 2008 6:22am CST
i had just had my first time with my boyfriend
it hurt a lot...
i feel eveything has changed and i am not sure whether it is good or not.
maybe it is because i am a little too young...i will not become 20 until next month.
it is really an extremely important thing for me and to some extent, i am at a loss. i am happy it was him who did it. however, it still made me sad whenever i thought i had lost my virginity forever and there is no coming back
would you please help me and share some of your experience with me ...
please.......................
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7 responses
@jinxky (2248)
• Philippines
10 Jul 08
i'm still a virgin so i didn't know what to say. anywayz, back to your topic, it's your decision & you should not regret it, i know you're happy after all.. for me i haven't found the right person for sharing IT, what i mean is i'll just give IT at the night of our wedding. honestly, i feel the urge of doing it before coz it's quite normal, we're just a human, but still i refused them. coz i know that's wrong.. don't worry about losing your virginity, in fact you just lose it, but still you're complete, what i mean is, you're still you, so cheer up :)
@Elixiress (3878)
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10 Jul 08
I do not think that at the age of 19 you are too young, when I read the beginning of your post up to the "i am a little too young" I assumed you were 12/13 or something. I think that you are putting too much pressure on your virginity, when I lost mine I did not feel as though anything has changed.
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@jamesarmstrong (251)
• China
11 Jul 08
To some country the virginty means a lot.If a gilrs is not virgin, she will not marry well.
But to some country ,just as where you are, a 20 years virgin is laughed at by friends. Maybe you still appreciate your first guy.
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@Elixiress (3878)
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11 Jul 08
Virginity does not mean a lot when I am from, but a 20 year old virgin is not laughed at either. I have nothing against the person I lost my virginity to, but I have not seen them for years.
@fredericktcw (30)
• Malaysia
10 Jul 08
i dunno wat to say...becoz i still a virgin boy...but wat i wanna tell u is wat happened was happened, move ur eyes to ur future...that's wat important...wish u and him will marry in future.
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@Margajoe (4709)
• Germany
7 Jul 08
Hi!
No you are not to young.
And it is normal that the first time hurts.
Sometimes you will bleed a little too.
All normal.
Losing your virginity is not the end of the world.
It is the beginning.
Enjoy Life, and make sure you use protection!
Take care, Margajoe
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@Margajoe (4709)
• Germany
7 Jul 08
Hi!
I sure hope not!
But, it is possible.
Please, go see a doctor and get some advice
on birth control.
Don't be ashamed, sx is a natural thing that people make seem ugly.
But it is life.
If it was not normal, how did you get born, how did I get born? Because it was not aloud?
Please, it is natural.
And especially with a doctor , you can talk about everything.
Take care, Margajoe
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@Johar_ahmad (419)
• Malaysia
7 Jul 08
i'm sorry, i really don't have any experince. i'm still a virgine. No s** for me till i've get married. Thats will be a great moment in my life.
@sugerbaby80808 (61)
• United States
10 Jul 08
I lost mine to a complete idoit, but i dont regret it at all, it wasnt the right thing to do i know but it was what i thought was right at the time, if you truely love your boyfriend,then you havent really lost anything at all, but rather gained a closer bond to him. My first time hurt a little as well, but i think that goes for every woman on the earth, I think that you shouldnt worry about it too much if you have a good relationship. age doesnt really play a role in life once you hit 18. then everything you do is done as an adult. so dont fret about it.
@klaudine (3650)
• Indonesia
15 Jul 08
Well, 19 is not too young, but is not mature enough, from what I've seen. I am not sure about what you meant by 'sharing experiences' here. Do you need to have some s3x guide? Or you might need some support to handle your confuse?
Feeling lost and sad because you have given what you think as 'the most precious' is hard. But there's no use of regretting that. All you have to do is to receive the condition that you have done it. I just want to make sure that it was done because you want it. Because if someone done it, it should be good for the both party.
I hope this will help