lonely me...

Remember that in the sight of God we are all equal, no one is superior nor inferior and therefore you should not feel inadequate at all. We are all precious in the sight of God and he created everything beautiful in His time. Yes, there are good looking ones out there but remember outside appearance is not all that matters. You may not be handsome from the measure of other people but surely there are things in you that are beautiful. Engage in body building and start building a muscles to entice ladies out there to your health and masculinity. Surely you have some talents you can build up and then gain self confidence in the process. Don't dwell on your weaknesses but rather strengthen your other attributes. Engage in sports, are you good in basketball, football or what have you, then do. Make friends and gain as many friends as you could. Show them that handsome face is no match to a good heart. Show them deeds of kindness that they will never forget. Study and learn and gain intelligence and wisdom that others don't have. Don't sulk and dwell on all those humiliations but rather take them as challenges for you to go and make a better person out of you.

Cheer up! Don't bother your self so much on not having a girl friend. As for now concentrate on your studies. If you get good grades, you also get good girls.

Hi there izar, If you will not stop that feeling, you will always bring yourself down. Try to join any clubs so that you can hang out with friends but of course, you have to be careful in choosing one, it should be the good club. Then play any sport with friends so that you will be able to release that bad energy in your body. Then, pamper yourself, listen to nice music everyday,and start recognizing your strong points and enhance your weaker side!

Hello, Mister Me. I was just like you. In the beggining of the year, I was in the second year of College, every single girl called me ugly, and I had only kissed one girl, but because OTHERS made her mind. When I asked her, she turned me down, but when others asked her, she wanted. I think they said: "Make an ugly guy happy for once in his life". Well, I always thought the same as you, and my self-esteem got really down. I joined another school (I study in two schools now, being one a technical school), and in this school people started seeing me with different eyes. Girls there use to say I'm romantic and adorable, everything that a woman can ask for... But I always thought: "If I'm that much, then why am I alone?". Until two months ago. Some girls used to have fun with me, making tickles and hugging and etc. But this 21 year old girl always said I was like her brother to her, and I started saying things like: "I can be your best friend, but not a lil brother!" or "If you say I'm all this, why don't you stay with me?". She always said that she'd stay with me when I turned 16, because by the time she had a crush on another guy. She then started loving me and I didn't notice it. On our way back home, she decided to take the same bus that I do. All of our friends "pushed" her to me, like: "Why don't you kiss her?"... And I used to reply: "Only because she will slap me in the face if I do so". On the bus, there was a female friend with us. She said the same thing, and I gave the same reply, and then she asked to this 21 year old woman: "Are you going to slap him in the face?". She got all red and didn't say anything. Then I kissed her. Now we are valentines, for two months already, and we love each other. And she is beautiful, but accepted me being ugly. I guess you'll find people who can see what you are inside, man. That's what matters, show who you are underneath! Don't just try to say you're ugly, just let others see how handsome you can be inside. Respectfully, Munhozmib.

wow, you really do have a downer on yourself and so negative.. You becoming your worse enemy by keep having so many negative thoughts.. STOP IT OK This is the reason your confidence is just going down and down... If you have this attitude, way you feeling then you will become more difficult to approach by any girl. Dont think its about best looking man gets the girls, thats rubbish.. hold your head up, you as good as anyone else. you just need to get that confidence back up, maybe by thinking all the good characteristics about yourself :) no more negative thoughts please :)

I am Angellaca you don't have a problem. Let me tell you who have a problem. Those people who are in hospital bedridden,cant move, burned badly,don't have any dinner this evening, no place to lay their heads tonight. because you have not met a girlfriend you think that you are not good looking? oh! get out of it young man, your time is coming,"those who wait on the Lord shall renew their strength" God made everyone in His image, guess what? God's Image is beautiful. When you see a girl passing, just put on your best smile, they will smile back at you. Don't think low of yourself,think positive at all times, God made you special (there is a song by that title, look it up and play it. God made you special) look in the mirror and tell your self. What mind can conceive, man can achieve. Your solution is; *God made me special and i am handsome*

There is no picture of you here, but I am sure you are not as bad looking as you claim! Keep on dreaming and I am sure you will soon find a girl that you like and that likes you! I used to be quite shy when I was young too, as I only had girl friends and not one boyfriend! I remember I used to cross groups of boys when I was walking home from school and I used to cross the road, just so I wouldn't even go near them! Years have gone past, I did find somebody to take to my school prom party and I even found somebody who was willing to marry me! So, as you can see, I was not as bad looking as I thought I was either! I hope you find somebody who judges you for what you are and not just for your looks, as that is not everything! Good luck and be happy!

I took a class on confidence. What I learned is without confidence you wont have anything you want. Instead of sayin g "I can't say I can. Next time you see a girl (she doesnt have to be a beauty) Just any average girl. Go up to her and say "hi, how ar you?" Slowly build up your confidence to talk to women. YOU CAN DO IT!!! Find a class on self confidence. IT REALLY HELPS!!!

well, i think you better start not looking on beautiful girls, instead look for someone whom you really like but not necessarily beautiful but not ugly too. What do you want in a girl, is it her beauty alone?

izar vergamse you need to practice self confidence.I am good looking, I am unique,I like myself, I am izar, shout these out and believe them . hold your head up high, know you are somebody, you are unique, you like yourself, believe this and practice this every day. smile at all the pretty girls, some will smile back. offer to carry some coeds books, and be complimentary to her. be yourself, a nice izar. good lu ck.

Hello izar,there is one thing you should understand that beauty is relevant and real women don't pick good looking guys,they go for a real man.So,stop thinking like that and be a better person,always think that you are handsome inside and out.You will find a awesome lady,that's for sure..all the best my friend.cheers...

Hi Izar I suggest that you build a lot of self confidence in you first. If you are not confident with your looks, why don't you try getting a new look just to boost your confidence. Remember there are no ugly people only people who think they are ugly.

Don't worry man, don't led your feelings to make you worry. If you could have said your age may be you could get the right answer you might be just a teen, and you are wrestling with adolescence age. Concentrate with your studies first, you are fearfully and wonderfully made you are special you cannot re-design yourself.

yo izar. bro don't even stress the females. just enjoy your life at college bro. girls will come eventually. like the person below me said im sure you got other great qualities. so them females are missing out on you. you just gotta stop thinking negative and you'll be alright.

izar, you are only young, it will happrn for you, I think you are luck to be a male as females usually look for inner beauty, they are not so fixed on the outer casing...I bet you have nice qualities, everyone has some and one day some girl is going to see them.,..welcome to Mylot...

Hey my dear, looks along dont make a person good or bad. A person who feels that way is the looser. If she feels she can get someone more good looking then she is the looser not you. Hey let people say what they wanna, thats what life is al about. You need to jugde yourself for what you are the goood deads in life.Not a person who goes on looks. So get out there and be the good person you are.

I don't consider myself good looking either. And sometimes that can really put me in a bad mood if I think about it in depth. And I always feel low around good looking people too. You only live once and unfortunately we have to carry on in the bodies that we dislike. You just have to make it work. Try changing your hair or something until you feel a bit different. But always remain yourself.

Don't think about girls atraction, you think about your study first, make your self a perfect person for every field, you should concentrate on your study and become a good smart boy in knowldgewise, then you need not to have good looks, or smart body. If you don't have that both even then you have one girl for you who really likes as you are, so bee happy and always keep smile, Welcome to Mylot.