How many women????
@pixiedustforyou2008 (2422)
United States
7 responses
@dragonstar1 (330)
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8 Jul 08
he seemed to used to know.
Now? Lucky if it happens and gets offended easily like he's not man enuf.............
@pixiedustforyou2008 (2422)
• United States
8 Jul 08
I know since i have gotten married it seems that me getting off doesn't matter anymore... I wanna tell him what he is doing wrong but i to scared to cause i don't want him to think that he is doing anything wrong which really isn't he just in the wrong spot.
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@dragonstar1 (330)
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8 Jul 08
Exactly, I don't want him to feel like its a bad thing, just want the nicest for both of us. men are strange at times!
@pixiedustforyou2008 (2422)
• United States
9 Jul 08
My husband use to be able to get me off everytime before we got married its like me getting off isn't important anymore.. Or maybe its my meds making it harder for me to get off and he doesn't wanna go that extra mile to get me off...
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@phoenix25 (1541)
• United States
10 Jul 08
I don't have to, but he likes me to tell him...to let him know he's on the right track and how I want to be pleased.
@phoenix25 (1541)
• United States
10 Jul 08
Most guys won't get offended when their woman says, "No, do it this way". It can be a turn-on for some guys. Just say it in a nice, encouraging way. Don't be mean about it and say, "No, you idiot, don't you know anything?" If you're unsure, just talk to him about it. It's the best way to calm any fears you might have about your relationship. Communication is the key to a healthy relationship.
@pixiedustforyou2008 (2422)
• United States
10 Jul 08
I guess i am scared if i tell him what hes doing wrong that he will get mad at me... I wanna be able to tell him but i am scared that it will make him feel bad or something cause i don't like him to tell me what i'm doing wrong it makes me feel bad but i still let him tell me what i am doing wrong.. Maybe i just need to lighten up and just tell the man what i want and where i want it..
@Taskr36 (13963)
• United States
10 Jul 08
Well communication is key. I've known enough women to know that physically, no two are completely identical. I'm observant enough to figure out on my own what is getting a better reaction, but not everyone can pick up on that.
If your man doesn't know how to please you, tell him. If he loves you he should do what's necessary to get you off as well. Encourage him and be vocal when he's doing something right. If he's doing something that doesn't feel good and you make no noise, it should be obvious to him that it's not working.
I know some guys have an easily bruised ego and some want to think they are just the greatest in bed without instruction, but listening to your partner shows that you are not only a good lover, but a lover who cares.
@pixiedustforyou2008 (2422)
• United States
10 Jul 08
He use to be able to get off me in no time.. but since we gotten married is kinda or harder to get me off plus i was put on some meds that makes it harder for me to get off.. so i think that is the problem i end up getting frustrated and tell him to stop and just get it over with... But i think the meds have a big deal in this
@blackmantra_x (2732)
• Philippines
8 Jul 08
Good day. Honestly I wouldn't mind if it will make her sizzling hot in bed, why not. Like I use to tell her, your pleasure is my business.
@pixiedustforyou2008 (2422)
• United States
8 Jul 08
Lol i like that... he use to be great at getting me off now since we gotten married its like he doesn't care about getting me off... I'm scared to tell him what hes doig wrong cause i dont wanna make him feel like he doing anything wrong he just in the wrong spot.
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