Breaking up, not a guy thing?
@sweetbarbie22 (304)
Philippines
July 7, 2008 10:14pm CST
In a relationship, we always believe that honesty is consider as one of the best ingredients/spices to achieve a harmonious and smooth sailing relationship. And even it could hurt us sometimes, still we stick to this as it will set us free. Yes, its better to get hurt out from honesty or telling the truth than making someone live in lies. It's better to get hurt out of honesty than hurt believing things which is not true at all. Breaking up in a relationship or separation could be really painful but this is part of it. Taking a risk is always there. And in this part-taking, the break up, often than not, it usually comes from the girl. And guys? Men? they had this belief that its unproper that the break up comes from them,so ungentlemen. We notice when guy wants to get out in a realtionship, why they couldn't be honest and straight to the point that they wanted to call it quit? Why they have to do such act for girls to notice that something went wrong? Is breaking up is not really a guy thing?
3 responses
@subha12 (18441)
• India
8 Jul 08
It is the real ;point. honesty should be there. it can hurt initially, but after that the pain is relieved. but cheating is a thing which should be avoided in any case. otherwise it will make to hate somebody forever.
@burniegheb (67)
• Philippines
8 Jul 08
i think it's on us guys that we can't express what is happening and what went wrong. we are still concern about the gurl that we wont want to see them cry even when i break ups but in the end gurls are still the one crying..but we courted you gurls and we boys were the one who got THE WORD I LOVE you" from you gurls so...i think break ups must always comes on gurls...sorry if i offended anyone...sorry...peace!!!!
@mensab (4200)
• Philippines
8 Jul 08
as a guy, i don't think that breaking up is uncharacteristic to a guy. if i see that a relationship is not going well and pointless to continue, then by all means i do say it straighforward. however, there is really a pressure to make the relationship work. i will not say it is a guy thing. nonetheless, i agree with much of the discussion part. i like this discussion.
