Have you ever cheat your mate?
By ayessa
@ayessa (1583)
Philippines
July 8, 2008 8:53pm CST
I don't know what came to me but this question just pop to my mind. Does it really happen that even you are happy with your mate you will find other person? I mean you will like to cheat and fool around? Is thinking other peson while you are with your partner already considered cheating?
3 responses
@singlemommy (2955)
• United States
9 Jul 08
You know, I don't know if thinking about cheating with someone else or fantisizing about someone else would be considered cheating. I guess that is something personal that someone has to decide for themselves. I do believe that you can love more than one person. I mean, I have feelings for all my ex's, but all in different ways. I'm not one who would be with more than one man at a time. I do know that sometimes, when you are in a relationship and you aren't happy that sometimes the people do turn to other people to find that happiness, whether it is right or not, I think is a personal thing between the people in the situation. Do I think cheating is right, no I don't.
@sprmm7557 (16)
• United States
9 Jul 08
this is a very personal choice. but i do have to say i cheated on my first husband,a couple of times, i am now married again to one of those men and i have been with him for 8 years now and have not cheated on him. i think when you find that true love , the one and only,once in a lifetime kind of love the thought never crosses your mind, and if a chance to cheat comes along you dont notice it or you will walk away.
