Very active new comes disappearing so soon!
By subha12
@subha12 (18441)
India
July 9, 2008 2:00am CST
It is the trend for last few months. i have noticed this. there are few newcomers who amke lots of friend. then they are very active. they post sso many and even reach payout in first month also. then suddenly they disappear. What can be the reason?
Are they here just to make some quick bucks?
or how they lose interest here?
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18 responses
@athinapie (1150)
• Philippines
9 Jul 08
Hi there! I think that maybe they just get discouraged with the fact that being in mylot doesn't mean that they can earn big bucks instantly. It takes time and effort to do so. And their impatience drives them out of mylot. Well, we can't please everybody.
@saivenkaat802003 (4823)
• India
9 Jul 08
Probably joining here with an intention/thinking that mylot is a quick rich site.. and with all dreams occupying their minds.. If i could make at least $5 a day here.. and in month.. i could make.. $150,.. and in one year.. and so on.
And once they started to work(!) here, the going gets tough.. and in the process they don't want to lose the money earned.. so they make the first payout here.. and sadly leave mylot.. saying that...it is my last payout here.
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@diansinta (7544)
• Indonesia
9 Jul 08
Hi there subha12,
I think they are not so interesting here at mylot as we are. And some just play around and make awful discussions sometimes. They think mylot just a machine not peoples. guest.. Some of my referrals are sleep too. sad though, I mean there is nothing like such of instant money, right?
@dpk262006 (58678)
• Delhi, India
9 Jul 08
Yes, you appear right in your observations. I have also noticed many who come and disappear after spending brief period here. They want to make a quick buch and are concerned with money/earnings only. They perhaps do not wish to learn new things in life and perhaps do not want to learn how to make some new friend and establish healthy relations. Let it be, if someone keeps changing sites so frequently, I fear, he may not be able to achieve his goals.
@checapricorn (16061)
• United States
9 Jul 08
Hi subha,
I will try to guess that maybe they found a regular job and trying to adjust their time...or find another blog site which they earn more that here! but, for sure, they will be back soon..I know people come and go in this site!
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@jessieBee (1046)
• Trinidad And Tobago
9 Jul 08
I think probably they lose interest, because form what I've observe most of them are on other web sites. And maybe they are so cought up that they don't make mylot a main interest.
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@secretbear (19448)
• Philippines
30 Aug 08
hi subha!
i've seen also a few newcomers like that. active at first and then they'd disappear after a few weeks. i don't think they left after getting a few bucks since they can't really make much money in such a short time. even if they did, i'm sure they would stick around and make more money. they probably didn't make much money and they got tired of waiting to reach their payout so they left. they lost the interest. and that's where i'd agree with you. they probably thought they can make quick bucks here so easily.
@madlees (1377)
• India
9 Jul 08
Yes Subha,
May be they are looking out for quick money. They would not have got what they expected. They left.
Only the ones who are there will understand what the site offers and what we gets. In one month or a few days noone can learn anything except about the money they want to earn. Just do not have enough patience. That's all.
By the way, I seemed to have missed it out. You have finished 10000 posts, all the best to you Subha for more.
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
9 Jul 08
hi subha12 too many newbies think that if they post a zillion responses and discussions of one or two lines they will make a mint and when they do not they leave. they just wont learn its quality over quantity and five or six line sentences not a coup;le of words. do it right and you will get paid, mess itaup and you make hardly anything.
@successlog (3172)
• China
9 Jul 08
hi friend
i think it is really a worthy problem to consider.I think they must have their own reasona.But i am not sure.
Because i am also a new member with a week age on mylot.
I think i wil reach my minimum payout within 2 week,It is easy to me.If i spend a lot more time,i will earn more than 1$ per day.
For the people who leave mylot community,maybe they think they would earn more if they spend the same time one other thing.or they found something else.But i think if some one don't like this type of making money-discussion,responses,they also will leave maybe.who can be sure.
happy every day.
@greenglitterturtle (2750)
• United States
10 Jul 08
i don't think it's all about the money, cause it is typical behavior of a lot of places, jobs and events. the newness wears off they get burnt out fast. just like the race in the tortoise and the hare. the rabbit started out really fast and passed up the slow turtle. but then the rabbit got so tired he couldn't go on. the turtle reserved his energy by pacing himself and passed the rabbit winning.
@vidhyavini (6111)
• India
10 Sep 08
Hi Subha.
I think I will come under that category. Actually I got job in a company and waiting for the call letter. It will take some months for them to call me. So in the mean time I am doing some online jobs. Of course everyone know that mylot is the earning site which is very interesting and so I got addicted to it. And now I am earning quickly. I am a new comer and have already made $25 in a month. I will not have time to spend when I go for job. May be I will just visit the site regularly but can't be active as I am now. Am I right??? This might be the reason with most of them. Lol. Happy mylotting.
@vinesh_kcm (453)
• India
10 Sep 08
hi buddy. i am also a new comer and me too noticed many newcomers who are disappearing very soon.. i can say that mylot needs a lot of dedication to work and this is not a place which is simply meant for earning.. if someone understands this, then he will definitely move away if he comes for money alone.. i will be here in mylot till i have much time to spend in this mylot.. happy mylotting
@rusty2rusty (6763)
• Defiance, Ohio
9 Jul 08
I can't speak for everyone else. I can only speak for myself. I was very active for along time when I was here on My Lot. Than I found a few other sites to try and make money on. So, It took some time going to them to make some money. I am only currently at two that go each day if not every other day. I just started coming back to My Lot. But when I left the discussions were getting to be all the same thing. I can only answer the same question so many times.
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
9 Jul 08
It could be many factors:
1. the money thing (which they think is less)
2. increased interactivity on internet in other forums
3. lack of time
No. 3 is the most valid, I guess.
Thanks.
@rosema (1145)
• Philippines
9 Jul 08
Hi subha12, Im also like that before, the moment I joined mylot i am very much active because i am so exited to earned. then when I realized that earning here is not that easy, i lost my exitement and didnt acive for so many months. but then i realized to come back and just enjoy here in mylot because i have so many friends here who missed me already and who didnt leave me, even though i am not active. thanks and have a nice day to you.
@babyfirefighter (568)
• United States
9 Jul 08
I think that the m is that they come on here and thn lose intrest after a while. There are many discussions on here that are the same thing over and over again but worded differently. They get active but after a while of the same discussions it gets boring. So a lot of them leave. That is what I think is going on.