on measuring success

@adoremay (2065)
Philippines
July 9, 2008 3:16am CST
How do you measure success? Are you successful when you have a very expensive car? Are you successful when you own a luxurious house and lot? Are you successful when you have traveled the globe? Are you successful when your bank account exceeds to six digits? People in general measures success by wealth acquired, carriers established, dreams materialized, positions achieved... Are you part of the general? Do you measure success on this standards?
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@alokn99 (5717)
• India
9 Jul 08
You measure your success against your goals that you have set. Measuring the success of someone else is relative to thier position at a certain point of time or when you compare them to someone else with some common points.
@adoremay (2065)
• Philippines
9 Jul 08
Comparing ourselves with others in measuring success is never really good. It will never make you stop in beating each other.
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@guybrush (4658)
• Australia
9 Jul 08
You are successful when you are happy, and at peace with the way your life is going. To me, money and luxurious belongings don't mean success at all - in fact, I often look at people who have it and can only see unhappy people who are still trying to gain even more and who have a desperate desire for people to admire them. I'm never impressed by wealth or flashy things - in fact, the older I get the more I want to downsize everything. Smaller house, smaller car and less clutter in general.
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@adoremay (2065)
• Philippines
9 Jul 08
I am glad that you exist! I think being successful is to be contented and being happy. Most rich people think they are still poor, the irony of life.
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@cjgrooms (4456)
• United States
9 Jul 08
No i don't, every time i look at my children and see productive well-adjusted adults i feel that i have succeeded, each time i see one of my preteens do a kind deed for someone, i know that i am succeeding. Having good family relationships mean i am succeeding. Money can't measure success because it is not going to make you happy.
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@cjgrooms (4456)
• United States
9 Jul 08
And a lot of people would be a lot happier if they just realize that before it is to late!
@adoremay (2065)
• Philippines
9 Jul 08
For some their life revolves on money. I am just glad you are one of those who do not belong in that group. Success base on material things will not make life sufficient.
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• India
9 Jul 08
Hi I think success in life can be measured by measuring how content and happy you are with your life, How satisfied you are with your life, How healthy you are, and How do others think and care about you etc. In my opinion Bank account with a number of digits can not make your life successful. Offcourse money is needed in life but it is not the only measure for success in life.
@adoremay (2065)
• Philippines
9 Jul 08
Material possession is not absolute. Exactly, let us focus on the things that gives us happiness, fulfillment, and peace.
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