are you still thinking of ur ex?
By joyines
@joyines (239)
Singapore
July 9, 2008 3:27am CST
do u still think of your ex? if yes what comes into ur mind when u think of him/her?
14 responses
@Adeliza1220 (877)
• United States
15 Jul 08
Even after everything that i have gone through with my ex and five years and a half down the drain i still think about him. I know i shouldnt because he has done so much wrong and acted so childlishly to a serious situation and humiliated me with my family. It is even harder when now i have to deal with the whole visitation arrangements for my 6 month old daughter. Sometimes i think about all the good momments we shared but then after a while i start getting flashes of all his negative side.
@Adeliza1220 (877)
• United States
17 Jul 08
Yes in that sense you are right having a child in the middle is just not the same as not because you have to continue treating them even after everything only for the sake of the child and the visitation that way he builds a special father daughter bond with his daughter. A child changes everything.
@mEisky (824)
• Philippines
9 Jul 08
humm..hard to admit but yeah,.i still do but not all the time.:)I know its not right but i cant help myself from thinking those days we've been together,all the times we shared all the laughters,even the tears we'd shed.Damn!here i am again..I was not supposed to be like this coz im the one who ended the relationship coz i thought its best for us..But its NOT!
@kingcrapper (1536)
• United States
9 Jul 08
I think of my ex sometime especially when it comes to moving the children from one home to the next. My custody battle with her was very nasty and there is a lot of feelings of aggression still penned up. The kids will get older and time will heal all wounds and then life will go on. Guess one needs to chose their spouces as they could be ex and cause alot of damage.
@bansalsakshi (208)
• India
9 Jul 08
even i have had my heart broken and now i don't even think that person who left me and who broke my heart and now if someday that person comes to me i no what will i do i will just give him a tight slap. i don;t think that person who broke your heart even deserve to be in your memories.
@Albert1989 (372)
• Malaysia
31 Jul 10
Yes i still think of my ex. I was with this girl for a long time and found out she was cheating on me again and asked his friend about it and we darted talking and have been talking for several month. I still think about my ex all the time. It hurts so bad. But like you hope i will get over it and make my new girlfriend happy. It was easy. But i believe with all my heart that i am going to end up with my ex. Because i am still in live with her.
@Tiherina (83)
• United States
16 Jul 08
I didn't have the best of break ups, but what makes it even worse is the fact that I still love him. It hurts a lot, especially considering it seems like he wants nothing to do with me anymore, I still want to be friends with him. It's a tough situation, but I'm learning to cope with it. Our relationship was fun and awesome while it lasted, but eventually, as the saying goes, all good things must come to an end. I just didn't think it would hurt so much. But I'm moving on.
@maniolas06 (193)
• Philippines
16 Jul 08
yes. i still think of him. always.. i cant remember a time he was out of my mind. before i used to think of all hurts he made me, i cant forget the SMS he sent me which thoroughly sets my heart apart, the time we fought, ahhm the word he said to me when he suspected me and boasted of that im disguising on text, cursed me off my face.. alot really... and thats why i got somethin like emotional inbalance i dont really know, althrough out im weak and had thought that he supposed to be out of my mind so now thats what i did. but it just cant really help, i cant really help thinkin he all done that after all the love i gave to him. oh my he's a poison. and that thinkin is a poison, rather not to think any of those. ayt!? by the way im all okay now. lil by lil . :) ciao!
@baebieDARNA30 (788)
• Philippines
9 Jul 08
very much. i still think of him a lot. i miss him so much, that i wanted him to be mine again. but i think that is very impossible for now, he wants me out of his life and i dont have any option but to accept his decision. i still love him, and im waiting for the day that he would tell me that he needs me in his life and he wants me back.
@Ramaditya (1227)
• Indonesia
12 Jul 08
Yes, I do sometimes, especially when something related to love relationship occurs.
When I think about my ex and her good deeds, I smile and feel happy to have such good memories. Then, I look at my current girlfriend and understand that even though she's not the same or as good as my previous one, I do get something better from her...because she is not a memory, but real!
When I think about my ex and her bad deeds, I was a bit sad, but happy again. Happy that it was a very good experience that I can use to adapt to the situation if I will be having the same problem someday. Then, I look at my current girlfriend, and feel happy that she does not do the same, and understand why I was separated by my previous girlfriend, as God wants me to meet my current girlfriend!
@TAYSON0076 (214)
• Egypt
10 Jul 08
yes some time that happen to me and i think if i tried to be more nice i would be more longer than my old relationships
@mizzk1 (56)
• United States
12 Jul 08
the memories that we once shared. How we use to talk everyday. And how he use to make me laugh and use to always keep me happy.