Where are my friends?
By chrislotz
@chrislotz (8137)
Canada
July 9, 2008 9:05am CST
I have about 80 friends on my friends list and I rarely hear from any of them anymore. Some of them are inactive and some just don't respond to my discussions. I don't understand why since they are active, why are they not responding to mine? I think my disucssions are interesting and I post some pictures so why very few responses. I read some of the other members discussions here and they are no better than mine and they get a hundred responses. Is it because they just have loyal friends? Do I need to get new friends? I think so, so I am watching for the discussions with a lot of responses and I am watching the people who respond to them and requesting some of them to be my friend.
So if you are active and want a new friend, please request me and I will accept. I need more friends that are loyal and will respond to my discussions and I will return the favour and respond to yours.
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4 responses
@poohgal (6845)
• Singapore
9 Jul 08
I'm here!! 
Yea. I have many friends missing in action too. I guess they have given up on mylot. I also notice I have some friends who only start discussions and hardly reply to mine. 
Perhaps my discussions are not interesting enough for them.
But well, quality beats quantity. So long as we have a few good quality friends here, I think all is good. 
Yea. I have many friends missing in action too. I guess they have given up on mylot. I also notice I have some friends who only start discussions and hardly reply to mine. Perhaps my discussions are not interesting enough for them.
But well, quality beats quantity. So long as we have a few good quality friends here, I think all is good.
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@chrislotz (8137)
• Canada
10 Jul 08
I hear yah. A lot of my firends do post discussions because I do get them in my email, they just don't respond to any of my discussions. Maybe they just don't find mine very interesting. But it is nioe to see that all of the responses I have received so far, to this discussion, are from friends on my list. But I have about 80 friends on my list and only 4 of them have responded so far. Thanks for responding to this discussion, my friend.
@TerryZ (22076)
• United States
9 Jul 08
Hi chris I think its because summer is here and alot of people are busy with other things. Right now Im in the middle of a move and its been hectic and Im trying to recover from surgery. But anyway I try to get on here at least once a day but I only respond to a couple of discussions. I hope to back to normal soon. Hang in there.
@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
9 Jul 08
I think the friends in our lists come and go, I have seen a few people coming back to Mylot lately after being scammed by other sites and they come back to the safe house of Mylot....hopefully your friends will be back too.
@vera5d (4005)
• United States
9 Jul 08
I am still here, lol :)
Things have just been insanely busy for me lately and mylot is usually what gets pushed to the bottom of the priority list!
I also have a friends list that is too big to keep up with so sometimes will miss a discussion until weeks later after it was posted.
I do try though to respond to as many of my friends discussions I can - sometimes it's just not always possible!
Another thing is it could be because it is summer in most places, so many people are on vacation or opting to be outside while the weather's nice :)
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