Do you pity post?

@freedomg (1684)
United States
July 9, 2008 11:36am CST
Have you ever replied to a kind of dull post just because you felt bad that the person had no replies? I have I figure if they went through the trouble of writing the post then they should get at least one reply especially if it's one of my friends.
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@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
10 Jul 08
i thnik you are just showing compassion for people which is a real good thing. alot of people have no compassion for other folks they are too self centered. i'm proud of you.
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@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
10 Jul 08
i meant i was proud of you for taking the time to be compasionate.
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@freedomg (1684)
• United States
10 Jul 08
Awww shucks thank you
@freedomg (1684)
• United States
10 Jul 08
O.k. I'm not sure who you were saying you were proud of so I will just say on behalf of everyone here that said they do reply to these posts... "Thank you". You are right there is far to little compassion in this world. I'm a firm believer that if we each make one small gesture that we could make a huge difference in this world. Keep posting
@academic2 (7000)
• Uganda
9 Jul 08
Yeah some posts leave a lot to be desired, but again, the truth is, as soon as someone decides to put foward a post, he has given it original thought, and we are not all of the same intellectual perception, so rather than feel a post is pathetic, I give respect to the mind that generated it!
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@academic2 (7000)
• Uganda
9 Jul 08
Wao! That was sweet! Thanks for BR!
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@freedomg (1684)
• United States
9 Jul 08
O.k. you are by far one of the coolest people I have ever met. Thank you for posting here.
• United States
10 Jul 08
Most times I comb through my friends old discussions from the past year and find the ones with no responses. Then I post a response. It's really more of a favor than pity. They don't make money until someone posts, so I help them out and they do the same for me on occasion! Hopefully!
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@freedomg (1684)
• United States
10 Jul 08
Wow that's really sweet of you. And so all know I only used the word "pity" because it had a smoother sound than something like favor posting would. I hope everyone isn't thinking I've been a b-word with this one.
@ch88ss (2271)
• United States
14 Jul 08
Oh yes, I feel the same. They should at least get a reply because they are your friend.
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@freedomg (1684)
• United States
15 Jul 08
I agree my first 3 posts recieved no replies and I almost left mylot. I figured if I was going to talk to myself I had better keep it off the internet. )The guys with the white jackets may find out. Shhhh) Then my stubborn side kicked in and here I am. Not ever one is as stubborn as my and I would hate to have a friend of mine give up before they got good at this. Who knows what we could learn from them.
@nupats (3564)
• India
10 Jul 08
well i have never really done a pity post but i do try to answer all of my friends discussions where i have some valid points to share..but since i answer my friends from my email so i dont know if they have any replies to it..
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@freedomg (1684)
• United States
11 Jul 08
Yeah there's a issue when it comes to posting just to get them a reply. Sometimes i will spend 10 minutes trying to think of something to say that doesn't sound totally stupid.
• Australia
10 Jul 08
with the mega population on this site what some people class as dull may be to some-one elses taste.i think i must have a simple mind and would post a reply it would help with comfidence get them to get better at posting and one gets a better understanding of how another person thinks.
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@freedomg (1684)
• United States
10 Jul 08
You are not simple minded, you simply have an appreciation for the simpler things in life and last I checked that is called sophistication. Keep posting.
• United States
9 Jul 08
Just did! haha, j/k :)
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@freedomg (1684)
• United States
9 Jul 08
I was waiting to see how long it would take for some one to write that. We have a similar sense of humor it seams.
@mentalward (14690)
• United States
9 Jul 08
Yes, I've done it. I had a post with no responses when I first started here and I remember how it felt! But if the post is obviously one that is just trying to make some money (you know the kind, they post 20 discussions in a row with very little content) I just ignore them, and usually turn "notify off".
@Ambitiouz (200)
• United States
9 Jul 08
Lol, nothing wrong with it, I guess I would want the same in return. I feel kind of useless if I get no replies to my post. And just like you said, if a person went through the trouble of posting a discussion then they are expecting to get some responses. I haven't posted much as of yet, but hopefully will increase my daily postings.
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@freedomg (1684)
• United States
9 Jul 08
Be careful mylot can become addicting. I have to limit myself on here or I'll be here all day. Thanks for the response.