friends who want to be more than friends
By jallyjoe
@jallyjoe (12)
Jamaica
July 9, 2008 8:48pm CST
i need your help no this one. i have this friends, a very close friend. she has a boyfriend that she tells me about, and at the same time she gets sad it i talk to a next girl. her vibes is telling me that she wants me, but she is already involve with someone else. what should i do?
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4 responses
@totally_insane (114)
• Philippines
12 Jul 08
We all know that friends are loving, carrying,understanding,patient,sweet and most of all a good lover. You are friend and if you feel that you love her too. You should not tell it to her because your taking advantage of the situation.If you notice that she also likes you it's because she feel down and wants to be someone who can talk and share her feelings and that's you!
My question to you is Do you like her also? You need to face this questions so that i can tell you my advice and then tell me what kind of signs do you see? As, of now be a friend because she needs you this time. I am very happy to give advice so please reply because i am very curious!
@Janeel (19)
• United States
11 Jul 08
I am no good at this stuff but would suggest that you ask her who she wants to be with. Then be clear to her on the type of friendship you want to have with her. If you want to be friends or more than friends, you guys just need to talk and see where you stand. You should only end the friendship if you think she can't control her vibes around you while she has a boyfriend. That's my opinion.
@pinkista (892)
• Philippines
10 Jul 08
Aww..she's falling in love with you? Is that what you mean? Well, your friend should think about whats her right decision. if she's not happy with his current boyfriend and feels that she doesn't like him anymore, she should ask her boyfriend about this, about her true feelings that her "LOVE" for him is already gone, and found a new one...
Your friend should be the one who should fix this problem first before making a relationship with you.
@Xdrowninghavocx (3117)
• United States
10 Jul 08
I think she may be assuming that if you talk to a girl over her that she's less important. However, I could be wrong because I don't know her. You should try t wait it out and see if she continues to do this. Eventually she may even open up to you and tell you have she feels.