is it ok?
By srpkinja
@srpkinja (375)
Canada
July 9, 2008 9:32pm CST
I have a friend (acquaintance almost) who has been dating her boyfriend for a year now. They seem to be in love and have a lot in common. Theyre a unique couple, unusual almost. He is one of those guys who blames the world for everything but he really loves her. She is unique and loves attention, no matter who its from. Neither of them really has a lot of friends, just people they go to school with that they say are their friends. Recently, this girl found a friend who she is really compatible with (this other girl is a lesbian) anyway; since she now has this friend, they have been hanging out together a lot more, sort of neglecting the boyfriend. The boyfriend doesnt have a job though and hes 20 and has dropped out of high school 2 times which means he doesnt have a lot to do during the day except see his girlfriend. The girlfriend not only hangs out with her friend but also guys. These guys have a crush on her because she flirts with them (i suppose to get attention that she is not recieving from her boyfriend). I dont know for sure if she likes these guys back but she always tells me who they like her but when she does talk to these guys she flirts with his as they were her boyfriends. I dont like that she does this because I would never do this if I had a boyfriend; its disrespectful. Is what she is doing ok? If her boyfriend found out about this, does he have the right to break up with her? What do you think about this girl?
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3 responses
@msedge (4011)
• United States
10 Jul 08
I don't think its right to flirt when you have a boyfriend.It means that she is not contented with him and might be she is just playing with him.Or she might be in love with him but still perhaps theres somethings shes been looking for a guy that her boyfriend has not.Yeah!You are right its being disrespectful for him and i guess he don't deserve to have her.
@Kemboi (341)
• Eldoret, Kenya
10 Jul 08
The first thing first, this people are still young, the boy should be encourage to go back to school than wasting his time with the girl he has stayed with for two years. There should be trust, again may be the girl wants some support financially and the any cannot provide.
@ieeko89 (1054)
• Malaysia
10 Jul 08
Hm, this is complicated, I think you should talk to that girl first, tell her that it's wrong to flirt around when you have boyfriend. If she said it's nothing but still doing it, then i think you should tell the boyfriend about this thing. And let them solve it together without you have to involve.
