i just simply adore you...

@raclie (1732)
Singapore
July 9, 2008 9:40pm CST
ok, i have lost a nght of sleep thinking about him and how to tell him was just planning to say that to him... but i have no idea on how to say it!!!! face to face, instant message? when!!!! help!!!
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10 responses
@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
10 Jul 08
I think you should be rather gentle at first, maybe when he does or says something nice just say something like " gee you make me feel good, I am so glad you are in my life" or " you are so nice I really am getting to like you a lot"....and test the water so to speak, sometimes males can be frightened off a little so just test a little first....
• United States
10 Jul 08
Say it to his face! Or, get within ten foot of him and send him an instant message/text message on his phone. And when he looks around he will see you. Smile! Boys love the smile.
@raclie (1732)
• Singapore
10 Jul 08
lol... ok, will try.... i just dont dare!!! arrggghhh!!!!
@subha12 (18441)
• India
11 Jul 08
its very nice that you have started adoring some. if you think the feelings are true and you can say that, just express the feelings. also see if he has same feelings for you. if so, then its ok.
@rsa101 (38166)
• Philippines
10 Jul 08
Actually, traditionally girls are not supposed to tell that to us boys. But if you really like to then you are free to do so. I really don't mind it if some girls would tell me that. But then, I will forewarn you that it may consequently have risks attached to it. Well you knoe there are males who are egoistic and when they see girls who likes flirting they take advantage of these as easy preys as they know they have an advantage over you. Maybe that is also many girls prefer to hear them from boys rather than girls make the first move.
@raclie (1732)
• Singapore
10 Jul 08
hmmm... yeah... there are some risks like that...
@zeloguy (4911)
• United States
10 Jul 08
I have always been one to lay it out on the table and let things happen as they may happen. There have been so many times I have heard of someone likes someone else and they don't tell them just to find that person likes the other person just as much and neither tells the other of their feelings. Thanks Zelo
• Malaysia
10 Jul 08
It is hard to tell you how because it is depends on you. You have to come up with your own style with your honesty without acting as what other people ask you to do. I have a friend of mine has his own style to give a ring to his girlfriend, maybe you can use this as an example and create your own: During his girlfriend's birthday, after she blow the candle on the cake, he kiss her. and then at her mouth. Then suddenly something transfered from his mouth to her mounth. When she take it out from her mouth, it was a ring! That was a pure sytle where people have not done before. Good luck.
@raclie (1732)
• Singapore
10 Jul 08
lol... that is cute.... but disgusting... really really disgusting!!!! lol....
@ahgong (10064)
• Singapore
10 Jul 08
Well, one good way to do it is to introduce him to mylot. Then write all your feelings in a poem and post it here. Drop hints about the poem to him. See if he catches it or not. if all else fails, just walk up to him. Smack him on the head and go "Boy! I like you! Drop so many hints still dunno! you like me or not?!?"
@dudoos (15)
• Singapore
10 Jul 08
you should tell him face to face, alone. You could more or less tell from his facial expression if he feel the same. If he does, good for you. If he doesn't at least you got it off your chest. I feel that expressing your feelings face to face is more sincere and you show that you are serious about how you feel because you'll have gone through deep thinking about it while you were gathering up your courage and waiting for the right time to break the next to him. =D
@magojordan (3252)
• Philippines
10 Jul 08
After you have been sure what you really feel, I suggest you say it to him personally. Nothing beats a straightforward and honest approach when telling a person how you feel. Just look for the right time, talk to him alone and there tell him how you feel. Don't be too nervous and don't think too much of what could happen. Just take courage and say it immediately for you might regret it for the rest of your life if you don't say it now.
@Kemboi (341)
• Eldoret, Kenya
10 Jul 08
I understand your expression. Nearly 99% of ladies fear to tell their men "I love you" I am married for 5 years, they is no day my wife has told me "I love you" we men we are told to love our wives and keep them holy. While wives are to be submissive to their husbands. So in this case take courage and tell him "I LOVE YOU."