How far would you go for love?

sweetbarbie I do not think love makes you blind, as you should love a person who is in agreement with your principles and restrictions. to me love comes between two people who want the best for each other, and want to live a decent law abiding life with each other. I think love makes you see things even more clearly as you strive to build a great life for each other.

Good discussion point here,i have been in that very situation,at some point in life ,luckily for me i escaped being drawn in with emotion,with someone who i can now see was wrong for me.I do believe now ,if the both wish for love to mould together thats fine,but not for one to need to change and bow to another ,that i feel is control ,not equal love and respect for each others happiness together.

I have to disagree with part of your post here. There are a lot of people who give up on love after being hurt once or twice, and then even if somehow they do find love, they never let their guard down, for fear of being hurt again. I am in love and happy, and there's nothing I wouldn't do for my husband, but I still have my guard up sometimes due to being hurt in past relationships.

I have had my heart broken in the past , and I am sure made a fool out of myself by not giving up on someone . The thing is in time if it is not the right person , or they treat us poorly that one day we will wake up . It is not uncommon that when you start to like someone you do what it takes , ya know . Put yourself out there , and maybe wanna look your best . When it is with the right person , I give my whole heart to that person , and do things to make them a much happier person . Work as a team with him , start a life , and always be there . For love I would go across the world ! With love their happiness is just as importnat as yours , and when they are in pain you feel that pain too . Love sometimes does make us act silly , or a little crazy , but sometimes it is worth the risk , and all the silly things we do to get us with a person . This comment was from now and even back when I was a teen all rolled in one . Just some thoughts , and sorry if a little random .

It all pertains to me.If i love a person i would do anything.I remember when i was only 18,i was a late bloomer when i had a boyfriend.I've been to their place once,when i found out that his not in his apartment.I went to their house at late night just to find him.To think that i just got there once and it's very far from the city where i live.I spent 6 hours for him to reach.That's me,when i've been in love all the possible things that woman could do will be done.

A friend of mine once said that ur head is place above ur heart so that it can control it. But I'm telling you that i'm not entirely submitting to that notion, I always go and give everything in the name of love. If the other party reciprocates then well & good, but if not then its not the end of the world.

Hey there barbie! Yeah, suddenly some other songs play in my mind. "Love is all that matters" and the lyrics of "Love will keep us alive". Well, the farthest I could go would be forgetting about myself and giving 100% to her. It isn't that healthy but that's the risk I'd take. When it needs to be, I will do it. From simple gestures like giving a few seconds/minutes of my time, to giving up my life. As I've always said, life is short, and we have little time to be with our loved ones. Just cherish them and give them the best. Take care!

I'm old now, so I tend to think with my head a bit more - but when I was in my teens, I definitely only thought with my heart, and probably would have done some silly things. I can't remember anything specific, but I was a bit of a drama queen back then - so who knows?

..well. for me, love is a give and take relationship.. I believe that when you love, you want the best for your love one.. you want to please him/her always.. but i don't think doing things beyond what is right is not good anymore.. I further believe that when we love, we become more inspired to do things right.. we look at things positively.. Being hurt is part of being inlove so when we fall because of love, we have to consider it as an experience where we learn lessons that atleast, we know what to do the next time around.. We don't stop to love no matter how many times we're hurt.. because loving is a gift from God.. we just have to find the right person so we could be happy at the end..

yah, same to me, i do anything for love however if we talk of sexuality never done that before. right now im in a relationship and we have come so far, when we are challenge to prove to my parents that our relationship is really out of love.