His bestfriend and gf betrayed him!!!!!
@sweetbarbie22 (304)
Philippines
July 10, 2008 2:17am CST
A guy friend of mine came to me very upset. It seems that he's ready to kill anyone. Well then if looks could kill, I might be dead by then. I've learned that he was betrayed by the two of the most imporant person in his life. His best buddy friend and a girlfriend of seven years. They had a long distance relationship but it didn't hinder them. Through text,chat/emails and calls are their ways of communicating each other. They survived. One day his girl called up and gave good news to him as she is planning to take avacation in his hometwon for about two weeks. She misses him as she say and wants to spend time with him. With excitement, he shared this to his pal,not knowing that eversince his pal was secretly inlove with his girl just by seeing all her pictures. When his gf arrived, he introduces them, filled with excitement to notice how his buddy and girl stared with each other. Until later on, he found out that they had secret affair. They explained to him that it just happens. They didn't mean to hurt him. It happens instantly. They feel love at first sight. He can believe it! How could her gf do this to him? Why she easily take for granted or turned back their seven years of being together? And his bestfriend whom he treated more than a brother. He felt betrayed and cheated. He didn't know how to face it!
6 responses
@mialei23 (2385)
• Philippines
10 Jul 08
Oh sorry to hear that. 7 years of relationship is so long. The question is for 7 years, are they really in love with each other? The girl is so immature, how can she do that! Your boyfriend's best friend....It's really disappointing. There are so many people in this world. They will never be happy because they don't even consider their best friend and boyfriend's feelings. That's really betrayal and even not good start of relationship. I don't like this kind of situation. I'm really sorry for your friend. Just guide him for now and tell him to be strong enough. Thanks and keep on posting!
@sweetbarbie22 (304)
• Philippines
10 Jul 08
yup, 7 long years! Sometimes it even makes me come to the point that the years is not really an assurance or guarantee to have a long lasting relationship. Yup, that's what I really do now.
@uhevelyn (219)
• Japan
10 Jul 08
this happens really true.we cant blame both parties for it happens not just expected,maybe the girl needs more attention ang tired of the long distance relationship that she had,maybe she found that attention and care to his bf's friend and begun to fall in love.loves trikes anywhere at anytime,....
@magojordan (3252)
• Philippines
10 Jul 08
All I could say is that people who felt they are betrayed are the people who would really find it very hard again to trust other people, especially that the people who betrayed him are the ones he trusted the most. I really don't know the situation that well so I couldn't really give a specific advice. I think your friend needs some time alone to find himself and when you see him that he can't go anymore then it's the time for friends to actually help him. I wish your friend all the best.
