does love really exist in long distance relationship??
By kristia
@kristia (138)
Philippines
July 10, 2008 4:20am CST
I just wonder of love does truely exist in long distance relationship. I mean, you barely see each other, you barely go out together. so, how can you say you still love that person if there's no more communication between the two of you. Let's say you live in America and your lover lives in ASia. So, how can you say you still love that perrson even if you don't often get to see each other. The relationship will never work. So, there's this 99% probability that you will fall out of love for that person, and find someone new who is always around and can accommodate your "Emotional needs".
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@teison2 (5921)
• Norway
10 Jul 08
Love has nothing to do with distance. All relationships need work. Some more than others. If you want a long distance relationship to work you'll have to work at it and you'll have to think about it more. It is not impossible. The love is surely there even when relationships may fail due to diastance
@kristia (138)
• Philippines
10 Jul 08
That's the my Point! RElationships do need work. but how can you work thingdg out when your so far away from each other. Im just being realistic, Loves does fade in long distance relationship. the truth is that love does away when your far from each other. It's the truth. TRUTH HURTS, REALITY BITES. You just need to accept it!!
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@teison2 (5921)
• Norway
10 Jul 08
You can talk on the phone. You can chat online. You can sende emails and letters, or you may have a chat with web cams.
I do not have to accept that long distance relationships work, because it did for me. Your truth may be true for you, but does not apply to everyone else.
I lived a 7 hour trip away from my boyfriend for the first year of our relationship. It worked perfectly fine. Now we have lived together for 8 years.
@kristia (138)
• Philippines
11 Jul 08
your just 7hours away. It's not long. What if your in the Us and he is in the philippines. Money right now is very difficult to find, and considering also the fact that you have time gap. Us is delayed 12 hours. Which means if its 12noon there, it is also 12am in the philippines.
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