What do you like the best about your lover?
By vipulchawla
@vipulchawla (2220)
India
July 10, 2008 10:18am CST
To all the people in love.. Which is the best thing you like about your lover? It may be his/her attiatude,smile, features, the way he/she talks, or may be even the way he/she reacts with u in bed..
So what makes you get more attracted or bonded to your lover? Even if you would like to share some incident that brought him more close to him/her, it would be very nice of you...
What makes you more confortable with him/her..
Would love to hear some experiences...
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10 responses
@moonlitmagikchild (22181)
• United States
11 Jul 08
everything!! he is the most caring and understanding person i have ever been with.. i dont even have to explain anything and he doesnt question me ever about anything.. he accepts who i am and my health probs but never has made me feel like im different even when i hate myself because i cant work.. he lets me do whatever i want and doesnt stifle my creativity.. he is honest with me and never has cheated on me and he works hard to give me anything i want even though he has health problems too.. he trust me and doesnt get jealous.. we actually like hanging out together which a lot of people dont with their spouse.. he keeps me grounded and stable.. he's romantic and always thinking of little things to do to make me happy.. i love him with all of my heart and knows he feels the same and we have been together 10 years this august
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@vipulchawla (2220)
• India
13 Jul 08
Wow!! 10 years.. It was so nice to hear about ur love life. Just wish if it could carry on like this.. U hold a perfect relationship and seems to be a perfect couple..
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@nupats (3564)
• India
10 Jul 08
well it is the care..the smile of assurance when i look at him...if i get worried about something and we are in a public place he will just come by me and gently press my fand and give me a look that all is well ..we share a very strong chemistry and can just talk in eyes...so i love his positive mindedness..
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@vipulchawla (2220)
• India
12 Jul 08
I just wonder how could people talk through eyes.. I guess the chemistry btw you and your partner works too strongly.I had been weak understanding the chemical formulaes and reactions.. LOL
hmm.. but i guess u both make a perfect couple..
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@excellence7 (3655)
• Mauritius
12 Jul 08
Her innocence...Her smile and her sincerity :)
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@vipulchawla (2220)
• India
13 Jul 08
innocence is one quality which can take ur heart away.. Lucky You!!
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@polaris714 (607)
• Philippines
12 Jul 08
I love his hands and I love his eyes. And beyond that I love the way he understands my illness and does all the housework without complaining. I love the way he always hugs me close and assures me that he loves me. And I love the way he tries so hard to understand me and support me in my career.
@vipulchawla (2220)
• India
13 Jul 08
Well, holding ur partner's hand and hugging him/her is really a romantic way to express ur love for ur partner. I really find it a very reliable way. Hope ur relationship continues this way
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@Ramaditya (1227)
• Indonesia
12 Jul 08
The very best I love from my girlfriend is not because she is a perfect girl that does not have bad or terrible things. Her appearance is average, and she's not very smart either. We also do not share the same hobbies. We only meet once a month as she has to work hard in another island, so she cannot be together almost everytime I need her.
But, one thing that makes me love her so much is her true understanding of my condition as a blind person. Her acceptance of it brings comfort and courage to my trial to get her to marry me, and her honesty that makes me forget to worry about her be able to be trusted or not...
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@vipulchawla (2220)
• India
13 Jul 08
One thing that confuse me is the part where you mentioned about ur condition as a blind person..?? I didnt get what u meant to say by being a blind person.. bcoz it confuses me that if u r blind, how could you see her, infact how could you write over here..
About ur girlfriend, its not only the beauty always that attract a person.Her nature as you have mentioned, understanding and caring for you, is the best thing she has and believe me, a person can fall for her counterpart even if she/he is not that good looking but has a very good nature... So you may not need think twice and just marry her...
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@vipulchawla (2220)
• India
13 Jul 08
Attach to God ... Oh being a religious person attracts you... Standing upto ur words is really admirable and u r lucky u have such a quality in ur partner..
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@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
11 Jul 08
My husband and I have been through heck and back in relationships. He has a bad marriege for almost 17 years that eneded with his wife cheating on him. I had bad relationships also that left me as a single mother. We met each other when my daughter was 9 months old and we have been together every since then. We are each others strength. He loves me just as much as I love him and we always have each others back even though sometimes we feel insecure about it.
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@vipulchawla (2220)
• India
12 Jul 08
Oh!! Everyone has some or the other bad experiences in life.. And we must really believe that what so ever happens.. happens for only good..
Its really nice to hear for you that after having a hectic time wit ur marriage, u are back into a relation which gives u more satisfaction. It feels good to have as much a loving partner as you are.. I wish you all the best for ur future love life..
Buy y do u feel insecure about ur relation.. U should not have any space in ur life to allow that feeling to come into u..
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@vipulchawla (2220)
• India
15 Jul 08
Lucky You!!
I just wonder if a girl could be ever so simple and patient to listen to what the guy has to say .. Just kidding...
You really got a loving partner..
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@sharay (2769)
• India
12 Jul 08
there are so much to say about my hubby, the main thing is that he accepts me the way i am, i am a very sensitive person who could get angry for even simple things, but he has understood me so well that he is the only person on earth who could stand me (of course my parents too), he can do anything and everything to make me happy, the only thing he just cannot stand about me is me being upset or worrying...i am so very lucky to have him as my life partner
@vipulchawla (2220)
• India
13 Jul 08
So you are an angry person.. Is it some kind of warning for me before being ur friend?
Seems like u are really lucky to have a person like that as ur hubby who can withstand ur anger and ofcourse if you get upset then he will get worried too..
Hope u make a gr8 couple ever..
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@sharay (2769)
• India
15 Jul 08
yeah, thats what everyone (the one who knows about me) say...i am lucky indeed that my daughter is so very affectionate than him, even she is becoming like her father, she never wants to see me worried...instead of the word angry, i think i am very sensitive, can react the next moment someone says something never mind who it is or where it is which some people say is good and some bad..donno how it is, but i have been the same way from my childhood..so its hard to change now (but my hubby is trying too hard to change me in that regard, even i hope he succeeds)
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@kissie34 (2294)
• Philippines
11 Jul 08
I like everything from my boyfriend but the most thing that I like him is his personality.. He always there for me is sadness and in happiness, he never live me even though I have so many problems in life.. He always comfort me and he is the one who gives me strong to face everything in this world... I think if you really love that person so much, you accepts him/ for what he/she is, you will love him/her without my reasons... Because if you love someone you don't know the reason why you love him/her... You just know and feel it that you love him/her..
@vipulchawla (2220)
• India
13 Jul 08
Everyone in the world has some or the other pitfalls. No one is ever perfect. And knowing the pitfalls of ur partner and still loving him/her, accepting him/her the same way is a great quality in itself.
All the best for ur relationship
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