Is this the life for me
By Tokenoftime
@Tokenoftime (58)
United States
July 10, 2008 6:36pm CST
Well I have recently gotten married. Life is suppose to be great and everything is going to work out. Well let me tell you that living with two kids and a wife is driving me crazy. But we got married because we felt that was the best thing to do at the time. Well if any one is out their that may be dealing with a new marriage then let me know if you are good or going crazy.
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@Tokenoftime (58)
• United States
12 Jul 08
Well you know I went to lecture today and I heard some real good things about patients so I am for today looking at this as my motto.
@raynejasper (2322)
• Philippines
11 Jul 08
..hi there.. I recently got married and expecting to have a baby.. In our family life, we often times got into misunderstanding with my husband but we try to work things out together because that's what we've promised to each other when we expressed our vows.. we still have a long way to go but I believe that if we become open to each other and discuss things we like and we don't like, we could have a happy family life.. Maybe, you view those things which are happening right now as burden for you.. but it should not.. try to open your heart to your wife and kids.. understand that everybody has weaknesses and nobody is perfect.. if you hate something about your wife's attitude, tell her in nice way.. tell her you're hurt or you're angry.. or you feel bad about something she did.. but don't be angry.. there are times when we do things which we thought it is the right thing to do, however, it hurts our partners.. open your mind and heart to the good qualities of your wife and try to realize why you fall in love with her in the first place.. be reminded also of your vows to each other.. I hope this message could atleast brighten you.. God bless..
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@Tokenoftime (58)
• United States
11 Jul 08
Well I am in my starting 30 and have know my wife for 11 years but after taking the vows it seems that it has gotten alot more stressed. We are both working together to make a better life for us and the children. In our lives their is no stability and we are trying to find a solid foundation to build on. So this is the main problem I know that relationships are a two way communication and open mindedness. We are both working on that. I hope god blesses you and your family thanks so much for your interest and comment.
@miraclefreebies (3043)
• United States
11 Jul 08
I would rate myself as "going crazy" I got married in December of 2006 and I've been coo coo since. Now here we are, still married and "crazy" But I can't leave out my precious 4 month baby girl. The only NON-CRAZY part of my life and the ONLY person that's keeping me from landing my crazy-tale in the crazy-house. I got married because I was severely depressed at the time and didn't know if I was coming or going. Wrong reason huh? My bad. I find ways to cope. Looks like we're in the same old broken boat.
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