How will you feel...
By innocent_dr
@innocent_dr (539)
Pakistan
July 10, 2008 8:24pm CST
How will you feel if your ex-girlfriend or ex-wife, whom you love madly, is now close with your best friend?
will this thing affect your friendship?
6 responses
@blandz0416 (99)
• Philippines
11 Jul 08
as you had said.. she is your ex already.. either ex gf or ex-wife.. that means she's your past. And if your bestfriend does not have anything to do with your separation then there is no reason for the friendship to be affected. And if the ex is a good person.. are you not happy that she will end up with a good person like your bestfriend.. so just move on with your life or if you cant.. try to win her back .. if she still cares about u.. then be happy. If not, let the two of them enjoy. Be a good sport.
But if your bestfriend is the reason why ur two separated then ..forget that you have a bestfriend.
@innocent_dr (539)
• Pakistan
11 Jul 08
i agreed with you..
if i m feeling jealous then how to overcome it? I dont wanna lose my friend
@blandz0416 (99)
• Philippines
11 Jul 08
talk to your friend about your feelings. That your getting hurt whenever your seeing them together, or what ever your feeling when and how. True friendship is being open to one another. Maybe if he learned about what you feel he will make a move not to show off their relation. And maybe he doesnt know that you still have a feeling to your ex.
And about your being jealous i think if I where you its better for me to move on. Let her go, and find another girl who deserves your love and to whom you can turn your time and affection.
@kissie34 (2294)
• Philippines
11 Jul 08
I don't experience it so I don't know what will I feel but however I think you don't have the right to feel any jealous since she is already your "EX"... No matter how much you love her you still don't have the right to be jealous and get mad to your best friend.. If ever they will have some relationship then you cannot do anything unless you want her back into your life and if she accept it.. I don't know this is only my opinion...
@fwangaa (3057)
• China
11 Jul 08
i don't have this experience.if i have,i feel nothing.i will veryhappy because it give me another chance to find the better one.
@tamarafireheart (15384)
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11 Jul 08
hello innocent_dr,
Yes ofcouse it will effect your friendship, you can never be friends if they are together you will feel jealous and I Don't think you should even see you ex and your friend at all, maybe he was cheating on you with your bestfriend so yes it will affect your friendship so say goodbye to them both
Tamara.
@crystalgay032003 (64)
• Philippines
11 Jul 08
nope.. a big NO... maybe because she/he is my EX...
and it will not affect our friendship afterall she/he is my past
