Do you feel bad if you don't get a single Friend's request any day?

I actually don't...I believed 360+ is a lot already where a lot of it are not active anymore..LOL! But, i am hoping they'll be back soon. I'll be glad to receive request but it don't bother me if in a day or week, i will not get any! A lot of times, I am the one sending a request, I am trying to add active people here so that I have a lot of post to be responded and additional responses I will receive whenever I will start a topic.

No subha I dont feel bad when I dont get a friends request everyday. I use to when I first joined mylot.

There are people here just added as many as 3000 to 4000 friends. Tell me honestly how realistic it is. Just to have the number as if we are keen on number game. I keep adding new friends but once in a month or two, I just delete those who are not active. I strictly go by those who respond to my discussion topic, I respond to their topics. If there is no quid pro, I end up only in giving response and not getting any for mine, however good/bad my discussions are.

Nah... It really doesn't matter, I mean, if I get friend requests, great. If not, it's okay as well. I mean, I can still move freely around MyLot, respond to posts and chat with people. =)

This can only be the case for such a long-timer such as you. For me, getting a new friend request is the exception, not the rule. So, of course, I feel happy when I get one, but I feel more happy when people respond to my discussions, which is also, the exception. You must have taken these things for granted, as all your discussions get over 40 responses, on the average. I really don't expect anything from here, as I'm not still in a position where I can expect more. All I concentrate on here is giving better responses to people and getting good comments from them in reply. These small things themselves make me happy. I don't even expect many responses of mine to be selected as the best, you see.

I fell happey when i get friends's request... but it doesn't really bother me when i don't... since i already have a lot in my list... and i want to concentrate on those that are there... since i try to respond most of the discussions that they start... even though they don't actually respond to mine...

It certainly feels good when I get a request but I hardly get upset if I don't get one. I kind of miss it. But the pleasure of getting one is unmatchable.

I have alot of friends here at Mylot. It really doesn't bother me if I get new requests or not. I have a hard time keeping up with my friends discussions right now. I always accept my new friend requests though. We can never have too many of them, especially at Mylot.

hi subha! i definitely feel good when i receive friend requests even if its just only one but i don't feel bad when i don't get one. but i feel bad when my friend requested is not accepted. although i hardly ever know if my friend request is denied because i often forgot who i have sent a friend request to. ^__^;; but i don't really feel bad if i don't receive even one request for a day. especially now that i'm kinda behind everything since i'm still going over old discussions of my friends including yours, so i understand if i am not receiving any friend requests at all.

nOPE, I DONT FEEL BAD, I DONT EVEN BOTHER ABOUT IT, I GET FRENDZ REQUESTS NOT OFTEN, AND DAYS TOGETHER I DONT HAVE ANY1 TO WANT ME ADD.SO I GUESS ITS ALL OKAY....

I do get disappointed on days when I dont receive a friend request. But then I try and send a request to someone on that day.

subha12 no I dont feel bad if I dont get a best response everyday because I often get three or four at a time. Ijust go about my business mylotting and do not fret thesmall' stuff and most stuff is small lol. life is to short to be fretting all thetime. smile. be happy

With your number of posts, you must be very popular here now. That is why you are getting many friend requests per day. While me, I have only 500+ posts and I receive only a few friend request. So in my case, I am the one sending friend requests. So I don't really pay attention if I don't get friend requests in a day. But I feel really glad when someone who has four digits number of posts would send me a friend requests. I mean, they shouldn't be doing that because in their state they should be the one receiving friend requests, and for me if they would send a friend request, that person must be someone who posts discussions that they like or some other good reasons.

hi buddy.. really i will feel lite when i didnt notice any friend responses per day.. but later i will be much practical.. no matter anyone gives me new friend requests, i will search for new friends and i will give them requests and i will feel much if they are still pending after a day also.. thanks for starting a nice discussion.. happy mylotting

If there are days that I don't get a friend request, it really doesn't bother me. I already have so many wonderful friends here that make up for it a hundred fold. Yes, I always look to see if I have any requests when I first log in, but if there aren't any I don't let it ruin my time here.

No, i don't have any such disappointments.. Infact i try to have the minimum friends here, and even in real life.. I am selective in making friends.. But once i make good friends.. i will do the maximum help for them, if it brings them good and peace in their life.

No subha,I don't feel bad at all.I am happy that the friends I already have are good enough.But I do accept new friends request whenever i get.I also request friends add when I feel like.

nope.. i dont feel anything.. i think i have enough friends - with loads of discussions posted everyday, and i can hardly keep up to respond to all of them.. it is good when i do get 'friend's request'.. but i would rather treat the ones i already have as nicely as i possibly could... that applies the same in 'real life' also...

i don't feel bad if on some days i don't get a friend request. it really doesn't matter to me either way. but i do feel great when someone want to be my friend. I welcome everyone.

I don't feel bad at all.. feeling bad would not get me friend request and i really don't bother people send me request or not..its upto them. By God's grace, i have enough friends and getting frnd requests also.. :)