How do you greet people ?

@alokn99 (5717)
India
July 11, 2008 5:21am CST
The most common ways we greet people are Simply saying Hi or Hello in the language we communicate in. Shaking hands with a smile. A pat on the back. Namaste:- With folded hands. A kiss on the cheek. A hug. We Bow to people. We touch the feet of the elderly. and of course there are a lot more like "Yo, what's up ". Then there are some which are very unique to certain ethnic groups and cultures which we may not have heard about or come across. Here is one which I have just learnt The Maori Hangi:- welcome expressed by the rubbing or touching of noses. Would you know of any other such greeting customs, or is there a different way you greet people ? I am keen to know more.
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@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
11 Jul 08
Maori Hangi: that I do with my nieces and nephew. How they love it!! Generally, I greet people in office by Hi or may be Hello. I hardly shake hands. With family and friends I ask, 'how are you doing' in bengali. I greet elders whom I see after a long time by touching their feet. What about you?
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@alokn99 (5717)
• India
11 Jul 08
With family and friends its always the traditional way as you do either in Hindi or in English. With special friends who I meet after a while its always a hug. With colleagues ahello or hi, with some of them who I want to encourage its a pat on the back. For some of the friends who are from different cultures I try and greet them in thier language. I learn in the process. I'll figure it out in Bengali, but I'm not sure if i can use it here on mylot.
@alokn99 (5717)
• India
11 Jul 08
The great number of acquaintances are now a thing of the past. A hug I know is not something a lot of people are comfortable with. I was not too, but when friends especially those a little older to me both male and female started greeting me in this way even with a light hug, with that true sense of warmth , it meant a lot to me emotionally. It gives you that reinforcement that people care. On a couple of occassions I have felt tears rolling down my eyes.
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
11 Jul 08
I get that you have a great list of acquaintances from various spheres of life. I have never found myself hugging anyone except for the kids. Officially I would , at the most, shake hands to greet someone from other country. Thanks.
@miklot (3)
• United States
11 Jul 08
Check out www.culturecrossing.net Cool site with greetings from over 130 countries around the world.
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@alokn99 (5717)
• India
12 Jul 08
This is a cool site. Its something that I was looking for. Thanks a ton for sharing it.
@joyce959 (1559)
• Philippines
12 Jul 08
I greet friends / acquaintance with 'Hi, Hello, How are you?' or Kamusta Ka? in our language. With immediate family, a hug or a kiss. With long time friends whom I haven't seen for a long time, a handshake or a hug. With our oldies, like grandparents, parents, uncles, aunts - we take one of their hands and put it on our forehead to say "mano po".
@alokn99 (5717)
• India
12 Jul 08
That is an interesting one. "mano po." What does it translate into and does it express respect in some way ?
@alokn99 (5717)
• India
12 Jul 08
Yes of course. Thanks
@joyce959 (1559)
• Philippines
12 Jul 08
Yes 'mano po' is an expression of respect to elders. I would add too that a simple 'smile' is also one way of a gesture to greet some people.
@amrishkj (297)
• India
11 Jul 08
I greet my family and very best friends with a hug. With others like business associates or aquaintace I shakehands with a smile.
@alokn99 (5717)
• India
11 Jul 08
Sharing a hug with friends and family gives us the special feeling of warmth.
@miklot (3)
• United States
11 Jul 08
Hey alonkn99! Check out www.cultuecrossing.net. Greetings from over 130 countries around the world. You can even add your own.
@joyce959 (1559)
• Philippines
12 Jul 08
Great site. Thanks for sharing it here.