Are you in a relationship now?

Wow, that's great, I hope you have many more wonderful year in the future.

WOW. You also had been married for 20 years. You must have a good partner or you are a good partner. I wish there will be a topic here that gives tips on how to keep a relationship long...as long as yours or longer. Thank you so much for responding. Take care =)

Hi cream97 If he is violent with you, why do you stay? Are you hoping that he will change? God can not help you with this. It you who has to help yourself. If you're scared why do you keeping stay in this type of of relationship? As matter of fact you just answered your own question. You're not happy and your scared what more of a sign do you want. You need to take care of yourself and make a better life. My father punch my mother on the face one time. She didn't do anything. The second time, he hit her again, she told herself that he would not lay a hand her again, she scratch both side of his face. And she told him, let that be the last time he hit her, and that there will no next time. Same thing happen to me. My ex slap me, because i told him to go find a job. I didn't think twice, I turn around and hit him in the face, I jumped on hit and kick his behind. We had just gotten married. After, we had moved in with his mother and again he tried to hit. I told him, sucker hit, but if you do, you better knock me out, because if you don't I will kick your behind along with your mother. I filed for divorce after 3 months. Not only did he like to hit, but he also like to fool around. Cream, don't wait until it's too late. and don't feel that he is the only man that will love and accept you for who you are. Never believe when he tells you that no one else will love you, like he does. Get some help.

I was supposed to say, happy anniversary but since you are not happy, it might not be a happy one. I have no right to give any opinion in the matters that you shared because I am bnot married and had not any relationships like yours. I do agree with kaleegirl45. Think about what she wrote. I think she has lots of points to think about. Thank you so much cream97 for responding and sharing. Do take care, okay. Kaleegirl45, thank you so much for sharing your experiences on cream97's case. Thank you, you are a big help. I will rate you positive. Take care =)

Hi cher, another 20 years here, wtg. It's nice when you know that you'll be together for another 20 years. How old were you when you got married?

WOW! That is a big W.O.W 20 years is a very long time to be staying together. And two years engagement is also quiet long. Maybe both of you were really inlove and no matter what you will be together. I wish you all blessings and love as you plan for another 20 years or more of your relationship. Thank you so much for responding. Take care =)

Thank you Leateagee, I was already in my mid 30's when I met my husband. I was ready to get married and settledown. Now I wish I could have stay single, and do more things for myself. I live with my mother until I was 37, and that was because my brother and sister always told me to stay at home with her and not to leave her alone. So I really didn't have my own life until I moved out. Finally me and my daughter found our first apartment, and even then my mother find out that I be going out and I be drinking. She still wanted to control my life. I was very upset and I told her that it's life and my place I could do anything I wanted. I'm paying my own rent. Anyway about a year later I met my husband, and the rest is history. I wish I could have had more time for me.

Hello kaleegirl45, I am not in a relationship. I am not married too nor been married. Though I am in my very early thirty's I am not worried of anything else. I do wish to have a family someday. I am too focused on my career. I am still enjoying a single life. Though my singleness nowadays are more on career-oriented unlike before it more on happy-go-lucky state. LOL. Thank you so much for asking. You seem to be a very interesting person. Do take care okay. =)

Wow! Congratulations. I am happy to hear that you are both doing great. Thank you so much for responding. Take care =)

Wow, its a far gap. You have not so new story but its interesting. It is your life. You have to decide. If there is no love anymore, why stay...but if you are staying for a different reason, it's still up to you. Thank you so much for responding. Take care =)

wow, do you think it has anything to do with her age? Do you and her go out and have a good time? why is it that it's borning, if you don't mind me asking. I can understand what your saying. See, my husband is 40 I'm 55, He is always working, I'm always at home I get bored of being here. And he always tired. He'll take me to the casinos once in a awhile. So, now I go out with my sister, daughter or stay home. So if you are happing the same problem, you're better off looking for love somewhere else.

I have not much experience in terms of married life but I guess, its up to you to decide. If you feel happy and not being cheated as a married human being, go on with that case. If you feel that you are not growing or anything that a married life should be, a second thought is advisable...though you need to think of the consequences and challenges that you'll pass/face through once you do a certain decision in your life. Thank you so much for responding. Take care =)

Hi Linda4ualways, well five years is a long relationship already. Keep praying. Believe that love moves in mysterious ways. Don't give up if you really him. Thank you so much for responding. Take care =)

Hi Alex, yes, your still young and enjoy your teen years. Believe me time flys. All you have to do is be yourself, be friendly and keep being funny.

Well Alex, as what kaleegirl45 has said, you are still youmg. Enjoy your youth. It will only happen once. Be productive and learn more. Thank you so much for responding. Take care =)

Hello rbailey83, your love for her is so great. Don't lose hope. If you are really meant for each other, what ever happens there is always a way that will bind you together. Congratulations on your first year. Thank you so much for responding. Take care =)