So where is everybody?
By chrislotz
@chrislotz (8137)
Canada
July 11, 2008 2:46pm CST
So I don't post very many new discussions and I had a lot of ideas today so I started a few and no responses. I think they are good quailty discussions but there is no one responding to them. Why I ask? Are people not here today or are my discussions just so boring that no one has anything to add to them? I don't get it as I see a lot of discussions that are a lot more boring than mine and they have 50 or 60 or even more responses to them. I just don't get it. Is it just that my friends on my list aren't very active or is it they just don't like my discussions? What do I have to do to get some response? How do you get so many responses to your discussions, people? I would like to understand so that I can get more. Please help me.
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4 responses
@fairyanny (363)
• China
12 Jul 08
Well,I have had such a question once upon a time.And many friends told me I shouldn't care much about it.So,I still don't make it clear about it.I just tell myself there are so many people and their life attitude are different.
Just take it easy and have fun.
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@chrislotz (8137)
• Canada
27 Jul 08
Oh, I do have fun here in mylot. I have just been reading quite a few funny responses on some of my discussions and some funny comments on some of my responses and I have had some good chuckles in the last hour. I think it was just a very slow period in mylot, when I was posting discussions that day, although some of them still don't have any responses, so I guess they were just too boring for anyone of my friends to respond to them, but no big deal.
@fairyanny (363)
• China
9 Sep 08
Well,I can feel your heart.I just donn't know how's it working till now.So I just take it for my own business,and just practise my English.That is easier for me.
However,wish you have a better day.
@chrislotz (8137)
• Canada
11 Jul 08
Thanks you are right, but some times I get anxious to hear from other members to hear their views on the subject I posted. I guess I just get impatient. Thanks for answering this one so quickly so I know at least one person finds it interesting enough to respond. But this just seems to happen more and more now, not just once in awhile, so does that mean that the members here aren't as active as they used to be? Is mylot getting to be too boring for some people?
@checapricorn (16061)
• United States
9 Oct 08
[i]Hi chris,
It happens to me also and maybe our friends are not active and I have noticed that most of those who responded in my post are new ones, only few from my list, imagine I have over 500 friends! LOL!
Anyway, hopefully, they will be active soon or maybe just like me taking break once in a while! LOL![/i]
@chrislotz (8137)
• Canada
9 Oct 08
I know what you mean. I have 100 friends on my list and I check them quite often to se if they are active and most are so I don;t understand why they don't respond to my discussions. I guess they are too boring. hehe
@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
12 Oct 08
Sorry, I was really busy today and only spent a few minutes here and there on Mylot. But still couldn't keep away completely. Soon I'll be off to bed! 
