Raising children
By Tokenoftime
@Tokenoftime (58)
United States
July 11, 2008 11:12pm CST
Hey that is a good one to talk about. Their is no way that we can be a good parent unless we as a people had good role models in our own lives. 90% percent of a child's personality will be from the parents of that child. I was raised with the saying "do as I say not as I do". What is this mess? I came to realize as I got a little older that I will have to actually show my children in my actions how to live. They will eventually take on both good and bad traits. I hope that God guides me to be a parent that I did not have and one whom they can learn from. Thanks for listening. God bless you.
2 responses
@kezabelle (2974)
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12 Jul 08
Its up to me to show my children how to grow up to be respectable adults, if im showing them a good role model that will help, making sure that outside influences are there also but making sure im there always for them to discuss anything they arent sure about, talking to my children about everything making sure they know everything they need to about what is right and wrong but making sure that they know even if they make a mistae that im there to help them through it after all we all learn from our mistakes dont we.
No parent is perfect we cant be we all have bad days where we want to tear our hair out but i think as long as you respect your children as the individual people they are and show them the best way to behave you cant go far wrong, and always always keep talking to them they have to know they can come to you i think.
@Tokenoftime (58)
• United States
13 Jul 08
Yes I believe your aright. In every relationship we have to have good communications. That was a big help for me. Sometimes we have to be reminded about things we forgot.
@spalladino (17891)
• United States
12 Jul 08
It sounds to me that He already has. My parents were distant and not really cold but I didn't feel loved as a child so I made sure that I not only showed my children that I love them, I made sure that I told them...and still tell them often. I have also tried to teach by example and I think I've done a pretty good job in that department, too. God bless you too.
@Tokenoftime (58)
• United States
12 Jul 08
Thank you I really believe that this is the key. To stop the cycle of destruction in the world. But it is not easy with all the negative forces around us and them. I do love the kids and feel good being a example. It is a trust that God gave all of us and everyday it is a battle to do the right thing. Even if we show the wrong image sometimes it is good to let them know that it was wrong and we should not do that. Thank youfor your reply.