Does your lover lie to you? If so, what do you do?

I think sometimes my lover does lie to me about certain things, she may lie about other things but she says she isnt but sometimes you can just tell. Well i think you may be on to something here, if i found out for something for sure then i would be upset. I would talk to him and see if you can get the truth, maybe even contact his work to see if he was there on that day or if you believe him just let it pass. Many things happen in a relationship, its hard to deal with, im sure you will pull through . Best wishes!

when he trusts is breached, it's hard. You have to weigh in on the nature of the lie. Is it a big deal or no.. If it's not, let it go.

My spouse does lie to me and I think I pretty much always find out eventually. But they usually aren't very major. Now lying about where you are; that is pretty serious. But at least you know he's not a very good lier. If I were you, I would sit down and talk to him about it. Maybe even get him drunk first. People have a greater tendency to fess up when they are smashed. You definitely shouldnt let this go without at least finding out the truth. He may not have been even doing anything all that bad. Sometimes guys lie about really stupid things. They're kind of like children that way. But you need to know the truth. a relationship cant work with dishonesty present.