how many girlfriends should one have?

Well, as a lady. I should say something here. To get respect from other, you should repect other first. :) Falling in love with one is the easy thing to do in this world, but keep this relationship forever is the hardest thing. You could have a lot of girlfriends ,but the meaning of them shouldn't be as same as your lover. There is a suggestion, you could finish one story to begin another, but shouln't to deal with several lovers at same period. You may feel tired and depressed. Wish you could come out of the trouble in the near future.

Well, I would always prefer to have 1 girlfriend especially if I love her. Me and my girlfriend have been together for 12 years now. We do encounter lots of temptations but we stood together and won over them. Just believe and trust your partner. I don't blame those who have many girlfriends. That's their preference anyway, and who knows? They might just be happy with that scenario or is looking for someone. Even married couples break up and either party could have someone else. In their own time, they'll meet the one who may possibly their partner for life. It is up to us individually to take the chance at love. It could be just around the corner.

I think it depends on nature of person what he likes most. If you can afford and can handle well you can have many and soo many gfs. As it concernes about myself i totally agree with many answers that you should try to have one but the faithful one. I think quality matters instaed of quantity for me.

well i dont really know..nowdays i see guys change girlfriend and boyfriend like they change clothes....and they even have multiple girlfriends at the sametime..i think it should be one girlfriend at a time if you really love her..

hi pati!i also do not have one and according to me one should have no girlfriend ,because it is just a waste of time and money.arranged marriage is the best ,handling a girl is like having a big load on your back,commiting the slightest of mistake can cause the girl to go away from you!having a girlfriend is like being in a jail where we have to work all day to make that girl happy,i am glad that i do not have any girlfriend.take a look at a life without girlfriend the life might be more interesting ,see more people and do not take any relationship very seriously.this is your life and you will get this only once so live life to the fullest and be always happy.

A descent person should have only one girl friend but i you are a sort of playboy you can have moe than one girl friend..It depnds upon person to person..

Hi antony, For a responsible guy, I would say having one girl is ideal and enough! But, if we are talking for those who are just looking for fun, I know some have 3 or more and for them it's not difficult since no commitment and expectations...Just for fun! I personally can't stand that, but I know a lot loves that way!

well i dont think its bad as long as the girl knows that she isnt the only one so they dont get serious.. as far as changing them all the time i would see that as them using the girls just to show off that they can get many girlfriends and maybe dont really care about settling down or being serious with one..

Well, I think that one person can have as many girlfriends as they want as long as all the girlfriends know about each other. I'm currently married now so I don't want my hubby to have any girlfriends. As for me, I would love to have a girlfriend. I'm being really honest and truthful. I don't want a friend that's a girl, but I really want a girl that I can be intimate with. Just one would be good. My hubby knows about it and he says he's okay with it. Guess it's almost every guy's fantasy.

It would depend upon your definition of a girlfriend. When you are young and there is less commitments involved, then you can probably have more than one. But as a matured individual, one can have one and only one girlfriend because the relationship is deeper and requires exclusivity.:)

I think that people should only be dating one person at a time. Only players have more than one and they are never going to be able to really connect with anyone because of that selfish behavior and shallow thinking. I think that it's ok to change girlfriends every two months, ya know keep trying people out until you find someone you really connect with. Some people do just have girlfiends for the sake of it. Dating people is a good way to meet new people cuz not only do you become friends with the person you are dating, but you get to know their friends too and so I think that social people see it as a sort of sport. I dont really agree with you about handling a girlfriend is the most difficult task on earth though, but I'm a girl so I guess I cant really see your point of view. lol

For me,i don't have a girlfriend either.i think friends are ok because i am young ,you can have many frieends.but if you really love her,one is enough.

You should only have ONE girlfriend, because if you get caught cheating you would be in so much trouble...and loving someone is a special thing

you should only have 1 becus gettin into the habbit of having more than 1 kan hurt you when you truley find the one!....then you will regret it so get used to being faithful

Hi antony, I believe that men and women are equal and that no one should have more than one girlfriend or boyfriend at one time. Sometimes things don't work out between a couple and they break up. Then it is okay to look for someone else. Blessings.

Hi antony2best. I do not have a girlfriend or boyfriend for that matter, so i can really answer your question, but i wanted to leave a responce because of often wonder this " if one girlfrined is hard to hande how they ganna handle 2" about... girls with guys.. becausze they too SOMTIMES find it necessary to have 2..... i cant, i couldnt,and never will. so i am wondering the same thing. haha

To have a fulfilling relationship you should only have one girlfriend. It is all about respect- would you go out with a girl who had several other boyfriends? It depends on what you're looking for I guess, but I wouldn't respect someone wit more than one girlfriend!

hi,my friend,i am glad to discuss here,yes, now, many people change their girlfriends maybe like changing the clothes they wear.I think it has been a fashionable character in social.Maybe they only want to show off something about them.So i can understand this..hehe. BUt for me, i always insist on one true girlfriend is enough to me.I need ture love, true,feeling,not false,radom act.I think all people should think this problem well.But maybe some one should consider it as a funny fun in life.whatever they thik,but i insist on mine... THanks for your share.

Have as many friends, girls or boys, as you like. Life is short! It you wish to settle down well that's different ;-) Make friends with everyone, and the girl you really want will come to you. xx F

Really, you only need one girlfriend. Sure, it can be great having a whole bunch or something, but the more you have, the more you will have to handle. If you know what you are doing, you might be able to get away with having three or four at some point, but this is hardly recommended.