The Life Benefits of Gratitude
By Gerean
@Gerean (60)
United States
July 12, 2008 2:31am CST
I am pondering a quote by Wallace Walter; "Many people who order their life rightly in all other ways are kept in poverty by their lack of gratitude." I am very interested in responses as lists sharing what other mylot members believe to be the life benefits of gratitude.
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@Elkeliini (264)
• Finland
12 Jul 08
philosophical indeed.
I think the basic benefit of gratitude is that you are thankful for something and thus appriciate it. What you appriciate you value and what you value is beneficial. Something in those lines?
The more you are grateful for something, to better life becomes for you because you see it that way. It's like Polyanna... play the glad game.
@Gerean (60)
• United States
12 Jul 08
The term "play the glad game," is certainly discussion-worthy, especially when focusing on the words "play" and "game." Those words in and of themselves can be discussed infinitely.
Another related term I've heard is "Rampage of Appreciation." This term is outlined as an exercise/game in one of my favorite books, "Ask and it is Given," by Esther and Jerry Hicks. The exercise can be played in by thought or by writing.
To begin one takes note of everything that pleases them in their "immediate environment." While focusing their attention on these pleasing factors only, a person theoretically will begin to become aware of improved feelings (also refered to as "frequencies").
The game can be played for a short period of time, all day, all week, etc. The object of the game is to bring into focus the connection between one's physical and non-physical self. When this happens, many believe that "the more you practice appreciation, the less resistance you will have in your own vibrational frequencies. And the less resistance you have, the better your life will be."
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@olivemai (4738)
• United States
14 Jul 08
I am guessing that this is similar to prayer, in gratitude we thank God for everything that we have! Otherwise, we may thank each other, our parents, friends, family, and the community for being so special and making life easier through good engineering! We thank our parents for not aborting us or abandoning us, for treating us the way they wanted to be treated when they were younger, and for doing the best they could under the circumstances! How many of us are thankful for the insects that help keep us alive, or for the good germs that help digest our food? Life is easier if we are grateful. Being appreciated is a good thing!
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@Gerean (60)
• United States
14 Jul 08
At the beginning of this year, I began a gratitude journal. I did this more as an experiment to see if by increasing my thoughts of gratitude, I would notice a more positive life experience. I did.
More recently, I have been experimenting with altering my negative thoughts into "gratitude statements." I found that this has made a significant change in my daily life experience, as well. An example of this might be, that as I am driving in traffic, I begin to feel negative feelings relating to the stress of the traffic. If I form a gratitude sentence immediately, I feel a decrease in stress. Example gratitude statement: Although traffic is stressful, I am so grateful that my car is in good operating order, that I have a functioning air conditioner and that I have a radio/CD player to use during the time I'm experiencing traffic.
Thank you for your contribution to this important life topic.
@icedcoffeemallows (649)
• Philippines
4 Nov 08
I think it's understandable that once or twice in our life, we pause and say we need to be recognize for our hard work. We demand for attention, we ask for a concrete evidence that we are appreciated. It's most difficult to realize that there are more demands than there are chances for being thanked for.
What is peculiar about the way we treat others is that we realize how important they are only when they are gone. Or when they stop doing what they do. Or when they suddenly change. The feeling that one person has to give is the norm, but thanking a person for what he has given, we forget.