Is it okay to use or share undies with your sister?

Philippines
July 12, 2008 3:14am CST
I don't know how to react when one of my friend burst into laughter after reading the text message from her sister. She told me she her sister got mad and angry because she uses her sis undies (bra and panty). And the worst is she didn't ask permission from her sis. I told her why she did that, or atleast she even have the decency to ask permission from her sis. She just laughs and told me that it's not a big deal. Its just normal since they are sisters! I don't want to argue with her coz for me,its really unhygienic. For me, even if you are sisters, you have to set limitation especially this kind of stuff, you have to keep something for yourself because this is private and personal. But is it really okay to do this? what do you think?
7 responses
@nupats (3564)
• India
14 Jul 08
that is gross i would never use anyones undergarments..it is not very good hygenically..but i guess it is a personal choice if they are fine with it then ok..
@aseretdd (13730)
• Philippines
14 Jul 08
I think that is yucky... i share a lot of things with my sisters... but never my the undies... we don't dare not cross that boundary... for me... sharing undies is a no no... just like sharing a toothbrush... even if my sister would ask my permission... the answer would be a big NO...
@deebomb (15304)
• United States
12 Jul 08
There are 2 no make it 3 things that I would never share. They are toothbrush, hair brush and my undies. I would not share them if they were bleached and boiled. Nor would I ask to share these things under any circumstances not even if mine were all holy and ragged. It just seems disgusting . They won't even take used undies at most thrift store.
@cnetboss (2473)
• Philippines
12 Jul 08
In my opinion sharing undergarments is a not a good thing because and I agree with you that it's unhygenic. You don't want to share any diseases through that right?
@ellie333 (21016)
12 Jul 08
Maybe okay to borrow the bra but not the panties, like you say it is a personal garment, your friend is obviously cool with it though even though her sister is mad at her for doing so which I think she has every right to be. Ellie :D
@dragon54u (31634)
• United States
13 Jul 08
I wouldn't. I love my sister and I know she's a very fastidious person but I wouldn't want to share underwear with her! No two women share the same set of bacteria or Ph levels and I think it can cause physical problems--as well as being rather disgusting!
12 Jul 08
I think its ok as long as neither of them have any STI's or any other infections. And you wash them in between each other wearing them. I dont realy know why you'd want to wear your sisters knickers though!