Do you believe that Love and Patient can change a guy's heart?
By cottonm
@cottonm (753)
Malaysia
July 12, 2008 6:03am CST
Most people said, guys r more into appearrance/outlook than inner beauty of a gal, especially when they choosing their gf...and, most of the guy friend who i knew, though they said their beautiful gf's character not match with the character of their dreamlover, but they often compromise with their outlook...so, my question is, do Love & Patient can really change their mind?or, how those 'not so beautiful' gal win their lover's heart?
1 response
@risris24 (712)
• United States
12 Jul 08
It is a possibility that over time those qualities can only ADD to a persons feelings to you or make them grow or learn to love you but one thing I have learned is you cannot in any way shape or form, change a person and really you shouldn't try. If he doesn't love you the way you are, do not change in hopes that he will come around and change his feelings for you.
@risris24 (712)
• United States
12 Jul 08
If that is the case then it is up to him, on his own to realize that and come to terms with his feelings, you cannot force him to see the good in you and expect him to change his mind. I say just go with the flow and if he treats you right and you are both happy then everything will work out fo rthe best and if it doesn't, you will move on and find someone who really loves you for who you are without changing.
