share some flirting techniques
By soheavenlyme
@soheavenlyme (117)
Philippines
July 12, 2008 9:03am CST
everyone has their flirting technique, me? just staring at the person and looking him in the eyes sometimes it works, sometimes it wont, how about you? want to share some?
1 response
@majestic12 (270)
• United States
12 Aug 08
If you meet her eyes and it stays for a bit, then that is an opener to approach her.
Staring at her without approaching her is more stalking than flirting.
If she gives you a look and a smile, you are expected to approach her because she has given you that approval to do so.
Typically, I dont do what most guys do (look around the room, find the ones to hone on, stare at her until she looks back and keep staring at her), which downright creepy. Find who you like, see if she meets your gaze, approach her and give her little or no attention.
Some women know that men will approach them all of the time and they know they can get men just by standing there, these women find these guys no challenge because they are too easy to manipulate, they prefer men who are more challenging.
If you give little or no attention to them, you are more of a challenge and more attractive to them...you let them know that you are interested, then you stop showing it, it throws them in a loop because you are giving off a mixed signal that they never expected or rarely receive from guys.
Dating and attraction is a game, many will say its not or it shouldnt be that way, but whether people agree it is or not, it doesnt change the fact that this is a game.
Hope this helps.