Is that compulsory that you should get married in your life?
By akrockz
@akrockz (306)
India
July 12, 2008 10:39pm CST
Nowadays when people turn around 20 years of age, they start to think about their marriage.. Either love or arranged, they want to get married as soon as possible and start their life.. Well, since I have crossed 20, I thought of raising this question.. So, Is that compulsory that you should get married at some point of time in your life? Is there anyone who has decided not to get married in your life and living happily now? Whatever may be, you can share your thoughts here....
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6 responses
@checapricorn (16061)
• United States
13 Jul 08
Hi akrockz,
I believed getting married is not compulsory, it will not turn not successful when someone rushes into in and like scared not to get a partner at 20 years old!In my Country, people at that age, are still busy finishing College but we can't deny that there are also who are getting pregnant and usually guys run away because they are not ready for the responsibility, living the girl to handle the baby!
getting married is always part of one's life but it will be fair to do it, if you are stable, mentally,physically,financially and emotionally ready!
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@totally_insane (114)
• Philippines
13 Jul 08
No is not compulsory because marriage is not an easy thing. Before getting married you should know what your heart really wants. You want to get married but you ask someone to be with you but you are not in love with her. The marriage will not work because you only force your self. Promising our Almighty God to be someone is very hard because you need to be sure that you love and care for that person. Never get married because you only want it.
@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
14 Jul 08
You have a long way to go. Twenty is much too early to settle down for a man. I feel you need to enjoy your youth before plunging into marriage. Marriage is a life long commitment and responsibility. Its your choice to get married or to remain a bachelor life. Of course there are many eligible bachelors out there who are enjoying every bit of the bachelorhood. It is your choice now.
@excellence7 (3655)
• Mauritius
13 Jul 08
Marriage is not compulsory but when you are really in love, then you shall opt for marriage to legalized and ritualized your relation. Personally, I will go for marriage in life because I love my partner immensely and we have a good plan of life.
@moonlitmagikchild (22181)
• United States
13 Jul 08
i think each person is different and if the person isnt ready then they should wait till they are to get married because they might get into a relationship that could ruin their lives and miss the opportunity to have met and fall in love with the right one..
@dsankar_87 (13)
• India
13 Jul 08
Ya its comfortable but not compulsory to marriage after 20.I think you are from Indian culture and these doubts should not arise for you.Marriage is another part of our life.Life without marriage is lonely in the world.