Your relationship just fell apart; Do you......

once i fell in love with a friend and it was my first love. we became lovers but it didn't worked out because his dad was spreading rumors about me that his son doesn't like me and that im the one who's only in love with his son which is not true. it dramatically hurt me but im not the type that trash talks to them. it took me several months to recover. whenever we accidentally met at the mall i just smiled and pretend that nothing has happened. until now i keep all the things he has given to me that reminds me of him that taught me how to love. currently i'm proud to say that my ex is one of my closest friends now, we often see each other but with the company of other friends. I'm currently in a 3-yr relationship with someone and he and my ex are also friends.

Well I would see to it in the first place that the relationship is not broken and try all I can to keep it going. On the event of not able to save the relationship I would call it off with no hard feeling with the other person and would tell them that if any day they felt like coming back, they would be always welcome.

What I would do all depends on the reason why we broke up or why the relationship fell apart. If we just drifted apart then I would possibly remain cordial or friends with that person. I have an ex and we talk every now and then. The only reason why we aren't closer is because I am currently in a relationship now and that wouldn't be too great lol. I do have another person in my past that I don't even want to associate with because of the reason why we stopped talking in the first place. I dont think I would ever go crazy by throwing out their stuff or trash talking them because I'm not that type of person. I guess it depends on what they did to me. If they blatantly disrespected me then I guess I would do something to hurt them back...who knows. You never truly know until you are faced with the situation.