HAPPY easy to spell but difficult to do?
By sabahking
@sabahking (416)
July 13, 2008 2:01am CST
what i try to tell to you all are it is hard to make oueselves happy because everyday we do the things that we dislike , seldom people that have chance to do the things that they like!and in our world there are a lot of people that they are close mind they do not want to open their mind to friend with other.They prepare living alone.So my conclusion is it is hard to make ourselves happy and it is more harder to make other people happy ! Do u have any idea to make people happy?
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@bournecaindelta (2477)
• India
13 Jul 08
Well, You cannot make one group of people happy without disappointing another group. For example, I want to be a Pilot. My mother wants me get a Master's degree. My teachers and professors think that a job right out of university will be a good option. Now I take any one of the options, I'll be disappointing atleast one group. The same goes with everything we do. Everyday of our life. We should give happiness, but not at the cost of our own life and dreams.
bourne
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@bournecaindelta (2477)
• India
13 Jul 08
Hell No. I'm doing what I love and I have explained the situation to my mother and she completely agrees that I have to follow my dreams rather than her dreams. As far as my professors and teachers are concerned, they too will know that I was different in my ways in College and will be different through out my life. And I think that they would be proud of me for choosing something that people would not choose.
Although I have promised my mum that I'll pursue a post Graduate Course after I complete my Pilot training.
bourne
@sabahking (416)
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13 Jul 08
your responing very make sense to me.Whatever we do we will hurt one part of people!That is the life.Then what you choose right now? So i think we should make other people happy in the case that we are happy too.But say out is easy and do it is very difficult.
@sabahking (416)
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13 Jul 08
Hopefully u can success to be a Pilot so that you will having satisfying and continue other journey in your life.
@nilzerous1 (2434)
• India
13 Jul 08
I have some idea to make people happy. I tell them to 'go4web', my life slogan, yes I have found that the days when I feel rather lonely, unhappy, or restless - few hours of surfing restore my peach of mind and happiness galore. I advise this to everyone who say that they are not happy.
Besides I like to entertain people the way I can do particularly during their time of distress by sharing funny comments/gestures. I like to see faces around me shinning like the Sun. If I do observe cloud instead, I start playing the mind game.
Members of my family, relatives and friends have acknowledged that.
Anyway, if fine, an honest submission - there exists a narrow stream of unhappiness in all of our mind, it tends to destroy your positive attitude even at the moment of glories and achievements. We need to supersede it for continuing life processes peacefully.
Also I follow a blog, http://lawofattraction-tc.blogspot.com, wherefrom I'm learning to develop a different attitude towards life. Hopefully, this will help you as it has done so for many others.
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@sabahking (416)
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13 Jul 08
i think people have different type of interest.Maybe you feel that 'go4web'is easily to make people happy but not all the people like it.For me i really dislike it cause need long times concentre to see the computer.I think outdoor activity is better than sitting at house see the computer.But anyway i will try to accept the computer and learn the new things such as mylot or blogging !!Thanks for your idea.
@nilzerous1 (2434)
• India
13 Jul 08
Nice to see that you like outdoor activities. I too like that but only to take a break when I'm bogged up. Otherwise, networking with like minded people over the Internet helps me to relax a lot.
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@sabahking (416)
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13 Jul 08
Although internet can relax ourselves but it cant help me to sweating.i love sweating so i always go to do outdoor activity.The most activity i like is playing badminton.
@applefreak (3130)
• Singapore
26 Jul 08
well being happy is my life goal. i try to be happy with whatever i do. i have come to realise that to be genuinely happy, we need to learn to let go. holding on to negative emotions and feelings will not help.
when i am about to make a choice, i use a method to help. i will picture myself in a rocking chair, staring out the window after retirement and thinking about this moment. would i have regretted my choice? will i be bashing myself for not trying? that way i'll know if i really want to do something. that makes me happy. cheers ;p
@nilouette (632)
• Philippines
13 Jul 08
Happiness, again, is whatever we put meaning to it. I am happy because I can see and appreciate the sunshine, happy because my family and friends are with me, happy because I am alive and have a purpose. These reasons and more are what I associated or linked with happiness...
@sabahking (416)
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13 Jul 08
izzit just like that we can be happy?But for me i think people is greedy because when at beginning we will feel that we have money we will happy already but at one days we really have money and we will find that we want more money only we can happy.So people is not satisfy at all.So people will be sad one say when it is the people who are not satisfy.
@se7enthbird (8307)
• Philippines
17 Jul 08
happy difficult to achieve if you dont appreciate what you have right now. it is not bad to dream high and have a goal in life but we need to be satisfied of what we have right now. it is easy to be happy if you appreciate what you are and what you achieve. if you are with people you love and care then it is easy to be happy. i am happy just sipping my coffee for my wife made it for me
@tnhzone (242)
• Malaysia
15 Jul 08
No,i have no idea to make other people happy.Happy is a feeling and its hard to predict how other people will feel when you do something of him or her.As for myself,i'll just do things that i enjoy doing to keep myself happy and forget all the unhappy memory.One more thing that can bring happiness will be Love.When you fall in love,the happiness you got cannot be replace by other thing.
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@sabahking (416)
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16 Jul 08
but i think that happy get from friend is different happy get from love.It is totally different.And i think is just myself happy it is seem alone !! Nobody can share your happiness so i think it is better to make other people happy and yourself happy !! The most important is tolenrate.
@kissie34 (2294)
• Philippines
15 Jul 08
In my views, it is hard to make your self happy but you can make other people happy.. Sometimes, when we are together with our friends we somehow feel happy and not alone.. We make some jokes so that everyone will keep on smiling and the start of laughing until each one of you shares some joke.. That is what I usually experience when I am with my friend.. But then if I were alone, I can keep my self happy.. Of course how could you make some jokes when nobody is listening... It is weird to laugh by your own self, right?? 
I agree that it is really hard to be happy especially when you were thinking all of the problems that you have and all the difficulties that you feel everyday.. If we see our friends crying or sad, we can always make her cheer up by giving the best words that she needs and the jokes that you can say.. But when we felt the same way, we can't even cheer ourselves.. We just stay in one corner and trying to be happy even though were not...
I agree that it is really hard to be happy especially when you were thinking all of the problems that you have and all the difficulties that you feel everyday.. If we see our friends crying or sad, we can always make her cheer up by giving the best words that she needs and the jokes that you can say.. But when we felt the same way, we can't even cheer ourselves.. We just stay in one corner and trying to be happy even though were not... @aorgaeni (125)
• Singapore
15 Jul 08
but you can't care for them everymoment. If you your own ways and they have their ways. Even your fingers are difference each other. Different people have different thinkings and you can't make them happy in one time. Since you can't make them happy, you will feel more sad. So make yourself happy!
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@sabahking (416)
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15 Jul 08
That is why it is hard for me to find a balance between friend,girlfriend,and family !! i make girlfriend happy maybe i need to ignore my friend! that why i always try very hard to find balancing even though iam not happy i will make other people happy!
@sabahking (416)
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14 Jul 08
It is easy to say it out but it is very hard to do it ! When you do decide one things sure and gurantee hurt another group that concern you! That is my idea.
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@cherrytcy86 (119)
• Malaysia
16 Jul 08
HAPPY cause doing something u like... Why not make the thing u dislike become something u like and meaningful? For example, u hate to wake up early morning to go for class. But when u think that .. Early morning,fresh air out there, can see the beautiful sky out there awaiting for u , new starting for a day... U might feel differently . Have u watch Kungfu Panda before? In the movie,the turtle shi fu did said.. " yesterday is a histrory , tomorrow is a mystery, today is a GIFT, that is why it call PRESENT." .. So, love ur day to make u happy... Ur smile/happiness is like a kind of virus, will infect others as well...
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