For Girls! I need your answers.

Hey there, I personally think that it is human nature to be greedy and when you ask why a person wants something better it is a personal question and the only person who can answer that is the person himself/herself. There are a lot of explanations and reasons for a person to be greedy and wanting something or someone more but the best explanation is that she or he is just being human. :D

It has always been every girl's dream to find the man of her dreams. A knight in his shining armor to protect her and keep her safe. A tough guy with a big heart, sensitive enough to empathize with her feelings. Every girl needs a sweet guy who would fulfill all her fantasies and dreams. Someone she can't live without, even a mere second of time.., well, there is no perfect love in this world.,but i believe that God create someone for us ,. even if you're not looking for anyone ., they will come into you in perfect time., with regards to your friend situation., i agree that there are some point in time that we don't feel the "spark" in our relationship ., but that doesn't mean that we are not contented.,it just so happened that you guys or both you don't give enough effort to work it out.,it is actually choice of both involve in a relationship.,if you think that you don't feel the spark anymore then it is your choice.,its either you break up or work it out! .,

Sometimes people just dont have that connection. Why be in a relationship when you already now its not going to go much further! I think everyone in a relationship needs to be true to their own feelings or you'll just lead people on. Even though a year is a long time, its really just a second in the life of a marriage. follow your heart!

If a girl only wants a tingling sensation in a relationship, then she shouldn't enter it in the first place. People who are like that only seek satisfaction and not real love. Maybe it's time for those people to get serious because one day no one might take them seriously and they'll end up hurt.

Sometimes love is more complicated than fairy tale stories sadly. Maybe your friend thought this guy was her knight, but found out he wasnt? Sometimes people just fall out of love and you cant excpet them to stay with you and live a lie for the rest of there life. Not all woman I like this though, some woman fall inlove for life and stick by there partner no matter what. Sometimes woman are afriad of commitment so when they see it getting to serious they run, and also some woman are afriad of losing a good thing to another woman so break off the relationship before that happens. Us woman are a complicated species, so I would really worry about your friend, she will eventually settle down, maybe she is to young to really know what she wants in a guy. ^^

Friend , I understand your problem. But making brain steamed give nothing . Be Cool and find a Way to solve it . Better try to Influence your Girlfriend so she concentrate on you. Go some where with small trip and enjoy lot . Do what she Wishes you can see all tingling is Over . She will be your's soon . More you can take the help of your Common sense. Good Luck Byyy BR

I have seen amny people who do like this. at first they start in good notes. after some time they just deny to have this nice relation. May be they get interested in other people. it is sad.

that is not the truth I am afraid. It probably is because once two people get to know more of each other, they see more flaws instead of the excitments they had when they first met. It happens to both men and women, so it is not as what you thought.

All new relationships start out strong but as time goes by they settle down into a routine. Sometimes the couple grow apart or find that they really don't share the same interests and values they originally thought they did. And, sometimes, the initial attraction fades for one or both of them. I don't think it's so much an issue of being a knight in shining armor but just the nature of human beings. It's never wise to *settle* for someone if you're unhappy because that unhappiness will continue to grow and the relationship itself will sour.

It's true, girls have this fairy tale idea about what a relationship should be like. I think if girls are like that they will just keep being unsatisfied with any guy.

Maybe, you just really don't know your friend that is why you were asking that kind of question. Maybe also, your friend have some kind of feeling that she don't want to her ex-boyfriend or simply the man had changed. I don't know, I can't say anything since I don't know the whole story. I am in a relationship for more than 3 years and 7 months. I am contented with my boyfriend even though there had been changes in our relationship. I love him so much and I am not waiting a knights in shining armor because I already found one.. Your friend might not be comfortable with her e-boyfriend or had seen someone that she feels "this is it, his the one I've been waiting for" without thinking that there might be someone who will get hurt.. Maybe, try to understand your friend (since she is your friend) and try to open her mind about the reality that there is no "fairy tales" or "knight and shining armor" that will rescue her someday. But there is a good man that will love her...

Hi muxicka, I read the discussion , that's really so cruel to ditch someone but let me tell u my story , i'm in love with a guy, since school time. we also have discussion sometimes when we don't like any activities of us , but that does not affects our relationship , all i want to say is its not only restricted with a girl or a boy , but more on an individuals , some people always likes to bring change in their life , and starts finding eachother's mistake just to get to rid with what they have .

I think that she was just looking the person that she loves. If a girl leaves a guy it is because she didn't feel it was working. Not to be mean. Girl are not the only ones that do it. I think everyone is looking for that one special person that we can love forever. Not everyone finds that person right away. It might take some time. They might have to go though several people-that is how you determine what you like in a person and what you don't.

I think some people get bored in their relationships. Personally, I've been with someone where the flame just wasn't there anymore, I guess we both had changed. But on the other hand, I've been in relationships that I love him so much and I wanted it to last forever and he broke my heart. You are right though, I think sometimes that women are looking for a knight in shining armour, but honestly, I think that this knight could be anyone if it is someone that they fall in love with. I don't think women are looking for a man to save them, just one who will love, honor and cherish them. Atleast that's what I'm looking for.

Because they feel like its something better out there