why are guys so insensitive sometimes?
By nylnemnad
@nylnemnad (166)
Philippines
July 13, 2008 8:28am CST
i have a bf. he often says he loves me. but his not showing any emotions. i doubt sometimes if he really do love me. he never praise me. never symphatize. i often up to him regarding what i feel about our relationship but he just says im just being melodramatic? is it difficult for men to show their emotions?i just wanted to know if my guy is still a normal guy being?
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2 responses
@coolmailraj (2460)
• India
13 Jul 08
Hi.
I guess he is normal. Showing emotions or even look for someone to show theirs is not a guy's cup of tea. I am myself has being accused of not being sensitive by a lot of my friends(girls). We guys love motion(speed, rhythm, bikes), not emotion and you girls should understand this thing.
@nylnemnad (166)
• Philippines
14 Jul 08
i really really wanted to understand..but sadly i still cant..he loves his games more than me..its not bad to show some weak parts sometimes..
@knight_rlc26 (362)
• Philippines
13 Jul 08
i am a guy, but i show my emotion to my love one because i love her and i dont want to lose her... Though ther are men, who are not emotional, but it does not mean that there insensitive for your feelings... they are just reserve and not showy... but deep inside they care and love you...
it depends upon the personality of the guy and the degree of your relationship... because there are intances that men is showy because they love therer partner and want to share emotions to her... although, lother are not like that but, still they love you... they cnt be with you for a long time if they think that they do not love you...
@nylnemnad (166)
• Philippines
14 Jul 08
thanks for the opinion. i just hope my guy would show some emotion even just a bit sometimes. how can i make him be sensitive enough?.and be willing to listen to me.?
@knight_rlc26 (362)
• Philippines
18 Jul 08
men have different personalities and likes... there are reserve and others are showy... i think that whatever your bf shows to you be thankful that he is part of your life... hehehe' what is important is you enjoy and love each others company...
