Have you ever been misunderstood?

I have been misunderstood when I told a so called friend how I felt about her. I told her I had a fantastic husband and awesome older sister but was still looking for a close friend. I thought she was soo cool, we have the same crazy/silly personally and just really hit it off. Needless to say my feelings weren't returned or appreciated. I later found out she is Bi, and may have taken it as a come on. I have nothing against what she choses to do with her personal life, I felt pissed because she couldn't talk to me about it. She stopped talking to me for a while and blew me off at that time I decided there was no need for me to put forth any effort into the relationship. Lesson learned!!

Many times in my life I can say that I have felt misunderstood. Many times in my life it might be that because someone else has not had the chance to walk in my shoes yet, they may be looking at things from a different angle as well. Sometimes when you try to do things people may think what you are doing as wrong, as they are being a little cautious, and may think sometimes they are always the one who knows best. I know that many times we have to learn from our experiences and do as we see fit and then go from there. If we don't learn to live from our mistakes and choices, who else will?

I have had my words been taken the wrong way but not a deed as of yet. But yes it is true, people only see and hear what they want to.

Whenever i speak to anyone and their are chance of being misunderstood, i make sure i use proper words and convey the massage to him. I have noticed one thing when we want to tell a thing which might hurt him\her, so when we are worried while speaking, it is sure the massage is misunderstood. hope i have convey my massage or i have confused you? I cant type word to creat a sentence but can speak very well.

the value of perception is highly underrated, and often not understood. The only way to change the way people see you is to understand what they see...

yes,when i was in grade one of elementary school.one day,when we class dismissed,then we had a sweeping.i didn't want to sweep through under the desk.so i sweeped the rubbish to aisle,but the teacher said the aisle had been sweeped.and rebuke me not to sweep the rubbish to aisle.and said i was stupid. after that things,i was unconfident to do anything.

I used to feel that way all the time. I do still feel that way sometimes. My friend had a talk with me about the way I act, but some of the things she told me about I felt that she had totally wrong. A lot of the times we misunderstand one another as individuals but there are things that we could still stand to change about ourselves.