flirting or just trying to be friendly?

the best way is by there body language, soome people say flirty things but their body dosent show the same. another way is just to ask. i have the problem tht i act like the tipical flirting when i'm not. i say things tht some people would think is flirting but for me really isnt. i tend to be lay back when i'm really flirting and dont say certin things tht i would say to a girl tht i'm friends or have no interest in.

Well, it is very difficult to know the difference , but I suppose if someone keeps touching you and flashing their eyelashes, it would definitely mean flirting, whereas a person who is just being friendly would behave normally. One should not misconstru friendship for flirting, as you may then put your foot where your mouth is and miss out on the friendship.

To be honest, it would be quite difficult to know the difference. However, it's also more difficult when people would assume. Personally, I keep distance from people whom I do not know that much who act in a manner wherein it's difficult to draw a line between flirting and being friendly. I do not want to be caught in a situation wherein I would be the one who will be misunderstood as flirting when all I am doing is being friendly.

you should be able to pick up by the way they behave with you.. hugsssssss

lol i have no idea, i am a complete idiot when it comes to that kind of stuff, i never know when someone is hitting on me, not even how to tell if they are hitting on me so i always assume they are being friendly

Its easy enough if you can pick up the body language and subtle signals women give out. Never take flirting seriously, they are mere words, an exchange of friendly and seductive gestures that some people do to sound friendly. If the flirting person is attached or married, obviously it is just being friendly...most of the time. I dont take flirting serious anymore than I expect the women to take my flirting as serious either. Flirting is a game to many, mere tests to see how a person reacts and stuff. If you like a certain woman that flirts with you, do what you normally do, you ask them out. If the flirting woman is someone that you arent attracted to, then take it as a pleasant attention. Doesnt matter if the flirting is real or not, all that matters is who you like and who you want to pursue.

friendly first and if we are getting closer and we like both then flirting.you can observed it by how they cares and the way of touching.friendly touch is different compare to a flirting touch and i am sure you know it.

tricky one. I don't know the difference because I'm the one who supposed to be to start a conversation with a girl. One thing for sure, if I ask too much unimportant questions to a girl, that means i like her and start doing my flirting action.