Your boyfriend's Ex texted him...

I would let him read it then say something about it. than i would get mad and than tell him that he needs to tell her that you have a girl friend now and he doesn't wanna see her.. I had this happen to me before but really is wasn't she want to se him he called her baby and i read the text message while he was in the shower i didn't say anything to him till the next day when he left to do home... Than i sad to him so you like calling other girls baby at the time i didn't know that she was his ex until she emails me and tells me their life story and i had him write her telling he that we don't want nothing to do with her and to stop emailing us.. so i would confront him about it..

well i would allow him to read the message but he would have to have a valuable reason to go.on the other hand i trust him so i would not worry if he does.he knows his limits and if he goes over board then we'll have to sort that out.i dont think that hiding the message always work because i would feel guilty and eventually confesss if not now.i don't know abt you but if youthink that will help then it's ur choice.only do wat you think is best..

well, when i'll be the one to be readin the text.. i'll take time to absorb the shock that they still have communication. Then let him read the text saying "Someone very important texted you. Go if you must! I know you miss her."That's really the way i react when i read from the ex. I'll make him feel bad and guilty for him not to go but if he goes. Fine. He must make me feel i'm important to him after going to make me feel consoled. But if he does this many times...it's a different story. If I say I'll let him go without hesitation because i trust him then i'll be a hypocrite,right?

If I will be the first one to read the text message of my ex's bf, i will definitely be on shock, all my blood will go up in my head and will be very mad at him. Of course, it means that they are still communicating with each other. Knowing what happened to them before, i would really be upset. Especially that his ex sent him a mail before that she was looking for him and that she still loves him.