What age did you have your first serious relationship?

@pookie92 (1714)
United States
November 3, 2006 9:24pm CST
School project, please say your gender and what age you were.....
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• United States
12 Jan 07
I'm female and my first ever boyfriend/serious relationship was when I was 17 just before my 18th birthday.
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@pookie92 (1714)
• United States
12 Jan 07
that is a pretty good age, are you still friends?
@pookie92 (1714)
• United States
12 Jan 07
me either, my first love was a new boy at school, he didn't stay as his family moved again, I can't even remember his name, Dwight, Duane, no...... that's not it
• United States
12 Jan 07
Nope, I actually don't even know where he is anymore.
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@all_n_one (2003)
• United States
7 Nov 06
I was 5 and she hit me on my nose and it was love instantly. It lasted all of 3 day until she broke my heart. Aside from that one my most serious is mine that i have now because i have a child with her.
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@pookie92 (1714)
• United States
8 Nov 06
Only three days, you poor thing! I bet she did that to all the boys! I'm glad you recovered and have found your true love, that is a perfect ending!
@pookie92 (1714)
• United States
8 Nov 06
Only three days, you poor thing! I bet she did that to all the boys! I'm glad you recovered and have found your true love, that is a perfect ending!
• Mexico
7 Nov 06
I was 16 when i had my first serious relationship, we even lived together in london. At the time it felt great but i soon relised he wasnt all i thought he was and it ended not very nicely! We were together for around 2 years though or just under. It is very difficult at such a young age to know what your getting in for. When i was 16 i thought i knew it all when i didnt! since then i have had more serious relationships but neither of those worked out for certain reasons either
@pookie92 (1714)
• United States
7 Nov 06
I think 16 is young too. It takes some maturity to actually get along with others in a "live in" situation.
• United States
8 Nov 06
so none of those serious relationships have worked out either??
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@Bev1986 (1425)
• United States
15 Jan 07
hmmm, my first serious relationship would be in college. I was 19 and started dating a guy from a neighboring college. It lasted about 8 months until he joined the Army and I never heard from him again. I was heartbroken... I had a few "boyfriends" in high school but I can honestly say they weren't serious relationships. Just your typical school romances.
@pookie92 (1714)
• United States
16 Jan 07
have you ever thought of looking him up?
@azriel (2107)
• Philippines
16 Jan 07
female, 16. i was in high school. and being young and stupid, naturally the relationship didn't last long.
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@pookie92 (1714)
• United States
16 Jan 07
well, we have all been there
• Philippines
16 Jan 07
im 24 and female. I do have boyfriends before but i considered my current boyfriend to be the first serious relationship i have. weve been together for almost two years and we're both very happy about it. before becoming an official couple, we dated for almost two years before deciding to go the next level. right now, we're spending more time together despite busy work. we're even talking about getting married. he's also my first boyfriend who my family like.
@pookie92 (1714)
• United States
16 Jan 07
I am glad for you, it is important for your family to like him, makes it a lot easier during the holidays
• United States
6 Jan 07
I am a female, my first serious relationship started on my 17th birthday and lasted until shorty after my 20th.
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@pookie92 (1714)
• United States
9 Jan 07
That is a long one for your first, are you still friends?
@kbkbooks (7022)
• Canada
14 Dec 06
I would say I was 13. I am female. I remember my best girlfriend being jealous that I had a boyfriend. And my boyfriend was jealous of my girlfriend. It was a little difficult but we got through it okay. I am still friends with this boy, and also with my girlfriend.
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@pookie92 (1714)
• United States
14 Dec 06
that's good, to still be friends I mean. Girlfriends often compete with boyfriends
@Pigglies (9329)
• United States
4 Dec 06
20 until present. :) I am female and so is my partner.
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@pookie92 (1714)
• United States
4 Dec 06
love is love, doesn't see gender, you are lucky to have it
@lauczi (962)
• Poland
4 Dec 06
as i was always shy person my first and the only one serious relationship started when i was 21 years old. till tha time i hade one night stands only. the serious relationship is love i would never have relationship with somebody i dont love. im female.
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@pookie92 (1714)
• United States
4 Dec 06
thanks for sharing your personal experience, I hope you find true love soon
@otshock (271)
• United States
5 Jan 07
Female, 12. It was in 5th grade. We never even held hands, but I thought it was love. He broke up with me, and it broke my heart. I later found out that he broke up with me because we never even kissed. He never even tried!
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@pookie92 (1714)
• United States
5 Jan 07
that is pretty young, I never was that young, especially for kissing
@ngchunyi (130)
• Canada
24 Dec 06
never had one yet
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@pookie92 (1714)
• United States
25 Dec 06
you just wait, it will come
@34momma (13882)
• United States
5 Jan 07
I am female and I was 15
@pookie92 (1714)
• United States
5 Jan 07
Thanks for your response
@msnadia (45)
• United States
25 Dec 06
I had my first serious relationship when I was 17, we were together 5 years and to this day we are still friends. We've reconsidered getting back together but unfortunately we both reside in different states although we're just 2 hours apart.
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@pookie92 (1714)
• United States
26 Dec 06
maybe you will reconcile, you never know, best friends make the best partners
@chalmette69 (3007)
• United States
4 Dec 06
I had my first very serious relationship at 17, I had a few crushes and stuff before that, but I had my first love experience then, I am 30 now and look back at it as a wonderful experience.
@pookie92 (1714)
• United States
4 Dec 06
I think the first love is always the most memorable
• United States
4 Nov 06
The first time I ever thought I loved someone I was 14 years old and he was 17(im a female)...I was so madly in love with him and he me! I really do believe in away that I did love him because we were eachothers best friends etc, I still love him Im just over him now!!! I havent talked to him in such a long time, because the lady he was with after me, is still in girl firends and apparently he wis goign to marry her I dont think she like me, because she new me when he and I were dating!!!
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@pookie92 (1714)
• United States
5 Nov 06
Love your post, very cool. Sorry you aren't married forever or something!
@kgwat70 (13387)
• United States
7 Nov 06
I am a male and am 36yrs old and had my first serious relationship when I was 29yrs old. I met someone online through AOL and she lived in Miami at the time. Unfortunately things did not work out as far as getting married or anything but we remain good friends and keep in touch.
@pookie92 (1714)
• United States
7 Nov 06
I have never tried online, of course I was married by the time I was online, that might explain. Hope you find true love soon.
@jess1874 (1021)
• United States
4 Nov 06
i was 13
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@pookie92 (1714)
• United States
4 Nov 06
how long did the relationship last? Do you think you were too young?
@vidyadas (415)
• India
4 Nov 06
nothin yet...
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• India
25 Dec 06
wanna hav
• India
4 Nov 06
at 16 years, male
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@pookie92 (1714)
• United States
4 Nov 06
care to divulge? How long did it last?