"collect and collect then select" do you have with the same thinking?
By honeyb
@maniolas06 (193)
Philippines
July 14, 2008 11:36am CST
i always hearing alot of people with the same idea when it comes to picking the "right one", they said it is much better to collect first, and then you select whoever he/she thinks really deserves to be a good partner. do you also do the same? and what are the advantage and disadvantages you think?
3 responses
@iskayz (5420)
• Philippines
14 Jul 08
Hi there!
Well I don't do that. Its just my own preferences not to collect and collect then select. I don't like the idea of having lots of exes. I'd rather wait and not collect until I finally meet my perfect partner.
Maybe the disadvantage of collecting is that you might be mistaken to be a playgirl/playboy. But for sure the advantage is that you can thoroughly select which one would be deserving.
Ciao!
@maniolas06 (193)
• Philippines
15 Jul 08
haha! thats nice! thanks for the response:) we have the same idea here girl... ciao!
@blandz0416 (99)
• Philippines
15 Jul 08
Collect and collect then choose the best, is the principle of those men or women who just want to get away with their image of being playboys or playgirls. A picky person will have a hard time finding the right or the best man for him because his expecting to much to his future partner. They will not stop collecting coz they are setting a standard to the one they looking for. Especially those girls who loves reading romance novel. Im very sure its hard to find a handsome man with money, smart, loving, caring, family oriented plus great lover. To find the best man is not expecting anything from him. Just love him for who he is and not for what you want him to be. Life is full of risks. To love someone is a risks, and to love someone is having the will to take that risks.. and accept him for what he is...
@maniolas06 (193)
• Philippines
15 Jul 08
hi there! thank you for the response! yes i also think that there are times that when a person get choosy finding for his/her partner, they tend to overlook good persons who really love them.coz they are so busy collecting stones they overlook the diamonds whos just infront of them. God bless!:)
@blandz0416 (99)
• Philippines
16 Jul 08
And chose a broken glass chips instead of the rare diamond that is just under their nose.
@joyines (239)
• Singapore
15 Jul 08
when i was studying i never tried to be in a rel nor entertain any guy.but when i finished my study i had rel wt my 1st bf and end up after 5 yrs. i felt that i really wasted a lot of my time into just one person and end up for nothing. then i decided i think i need to have more option than one.so i went out dating wt diff guys.after i did that finally i know what i really really want and i have him now in my life. its so good the u have options and select what u think is best instead of what is available.
@maniolas06 (193)
• Philippines
15 Jul 08
hi joy!:) oh yeah its good to collect suitors but never to boyfriend them at the same time! lol. yeah i think you got a good guy now with you. congratulations! and hoping someday id meet mine too:) God bless!