how can i make him love me?

It sounds like you seriously need to have a talk with him about how you feel. To be honest, you may have read too many romance novels about love in peoples' eyes and the love and tenderness in his touch. If he says he loves you, I'd try to believe him, unless he's simply after your body or some other sort of gain. You can't make someone love you, if they don't have the feelings for you, so I'd suggest, if you discuss it and he tells you he doesn't love you, to move on and find someone who truly cares about you. And, again, try and be practical. He could still be very much in love with you, even if he doesn't see fireworks around you every time you're together. Good luck!

Dont push it. I dont want to sound rude or anything but you cant make someone love you. When he is really, he will come around. Dont take it personally, maybe he is just the kind of guy that isnt ready for commitment or is after of it. He will come around and you just need to give him time. Good luck! I hope everything goes well.

oh man you are in deep trouble.. i think that you cant force him to love you.. i guess all you have to do is give it your best shot and be prepared for anything.. you cant put your hopes up high but dont let it crush your heart.. be the woman he could ever need..^_^ best of luck..^_^

I think that you need to have a serious conversation with him and tell him how you feel about him and ask him how he truthfully feels about you. I don't know how comfortable you are with talking to him but you need to try to talk to him as I think it would help you feel more comfortable with him and the way he feels about you. Not everyone falls instantly in love and it may take him a little while longer to. Have a Wonderfully Lovely Day!

you can't make anyone love you. its something that will come naturally. you shouldn't want to make someone love you i mean that's just like making someone give you money they don't really want to but did because you made them. maybe you should just talk with him and find out how he really feel about you. see if he's really into you, because you don't want to push him too hard you might push him away. just give it some time, and after a while if you haven't heard those 3 litte words maybe you should reconsider the relationship. hope this helps in some way or the other.

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I believe you should talk to him my dear, and explain what troubles your feelings. But first, you should be calm and make peace with your own feelings. Perhaps you are a bit expecting something from him, like he has to show that he loves you through his eyes, his kisses, his touch, or many physical activities directed towards you. Let's see... Have you ever tried to see something else from him? I mean, the way he pays attention to your words, or the way he cares about you (non physical activities)? That's because people have their own unique way to express their love. So, try to talk to him but not to demand him anything. Make sure you can syncronize your understanding about love between you and him, so you both can understand each other. My girlfriend for example, is not a type of person that can do romantic things (huging, making poetries, etc). She is a normal girl, too normal I think, but the way she wants to go with me (blind person) answers my doubt that she still loves me, on her way... But after she hears from me that I sometimes like being huged, being treated as romantic as possible, then she triies sometimes, hehehe! Overall, good luck for ou, and the best way to find out is to build a deep and serious communication between you and him, so you both can learn and understand each other...