who is dominating ? yourself or husband?

I prefer to take decision taking my better half into confidence. We generally do not take major decision single handedly. I always take her suggestions before arriving at an important decision. As far as dominance is concerned, we both dominate each other, whosoever gets a chance to dominate........LOL!

I'm more of the decision maker and more dominating than my husband, but not in a bad way! He's just really easy going and goes with the flow of whatever is happening. He trusts my decisions and goes along with what I think is the best idea. He does have his own opinions, so don't think he's brain washed. He's just more laid back than most lol

Just like you, but I some times do not like tobe dominated. Since I am not earning I had to listen to him. Its ok. I get adjusted after all we should keep going. Not that he won't be giving money or anything, but when buying big things I just can not proceed on my decision. He just simply says no. But I lost all my interest since my only daughter joined a spiritual organization. There is no one to look after, I mean for whom should I argue with my husband?

We're very much equal. I tend to bow to his opinion on many things, but what he says, by no means, is the way it's going to be, unless we come to some sort of agreement. It doesn't sound like you're voiceless or demeaned, but I'm very outspoken and stubborn and your agreement wouldn't work for me.

In my case, whoever has the better idea wins. It doesn't matter who decides as long as the decision is for the good of the family. We don't look at it as dominating whatsoever. It's just that we agree on things. And I think, as long as you understand each other, its more important.