Do we really need to rely on "signs" if he/she is your destiny or not?

..as to my observations and readings, signs could work to some and not to some.. It works when the one praying is really asincere and that nobody knows the signs she's praying except she and God.. because when somebody knows the signs that a girl is praying, boys can make fun to her.. Although its not easy to rely on signs because God knows whom we deserve and He knows very well the person.. sometimes, we pray for the person we already loved.. we think he's the one and we ask God to let him be the one.. However, God has his own plans.. maybe what we need to pray is that, God would let us understand His signs of whom are we suppose to spend life together..

hey comeon grow up..stop watching all ds crappy melo dramas..yes we all do silly stuff like asking for signs..i do too and it keeps u feeling positve and work on even when the going is tuff