Does being too honest really good?
By ellavila
@ellavila (149)
Philippines
July 14, 2008 8:49pm CST
How will you handle a situation that you need to be honest to someone you love and does limitations exist in this matter?
5 responses
@funkykid (441)
• India
9 Nov 10
Ever since childhood, I've said that the Golden Rule should be, "Do unto others as they would have you do unto them," for that very reason (although I didn't know I had asperger's back then, but I knew that I often wanted things very different from what I observed others seeming to want.) As an adult, I would modify it to, "so long as you are not harming yourself in the process, do unto others as they would have you do unto them."
• Philippines
4 May 09
oh, i really beleive that honesty is the best policy. Honestly for me is FREEDOM!
@fifileigh (3615)
• United States
15 Jul 08
i dont care..i am into being honest...i am sick of people bs and lies for whatever reasons they do it...it is stupid and lame...i just say it as it is. if they dont like it, oh well, that is life...they will get used to it...
@rrdj71 (696)
• United States
15 Jul 08
I think you REALLY need to know and trust the person you are sharing EVERYTHING with and even then you may or may not want to share it ALL. After all, there are situations when the things you share are later used against you in an argument or in some other hurtful way. We must be honest with ourselves but also not say too much sometimes.
@raynejasper (2322)
• Philippines
15 Jul 08
..being honest most especially to the one you love is very important for me because I believe that when you are honest, then you can gain the trust and confidence of the one you love.. It is when you become honest to each other that you are able to understand each other's situation.. For me, there is no limitation regarding honesty.. Maybe, it is in confiding everything to your love one that has a limitations.. Because I believe that there are things which we don't need to confide to our partners most especially if it would just ruin the relationship.. Or if the thing has nothing to do with the relationship..