What age are you when you get marry.What is the best age for marriage
By tnhzone
@tnhzone (242)
Malaysia
July 14, 2008 11:36pm CST
Somebody marry at a age of 40 or 50 or even more than that,Some at the age of 20.well what is the best age for marriage.For female,i think most of them want to get marry at the younger age so that they can be a beatiful bride,do you agree with that?As for men,they will choose a older age so that they will have stable income and saving to ensure a happy live.However,different ppl have different though that's why some marry at a very young age.What do you think?
4 responses
@zer0charly (5614)
• Philippines
15 Jul 08
I don't know on what's the best age for marriage, but of course, before you get married, you have to consider some things.
I believe you are emotionally and financially ready.
marriage isn't that easy. it is not a game that you need to play. once you're there, you shouldn't back out if ever you feel fear. you have to face all the challenges and responsibilities wholeheartedly and willingly.
and if you really love the person that you'll going to marry, and see your future with him/her. then why not not to marry?..
you just have to assess first yourself before entering into that stage.
@zer0charly (5614)
• Philippines
16 Jul 08
yeah, you'll never know if your ready until you're there..
but like what I've said, if you are willing to accept and ready for all the responsibilities and challenges right after the marriage, I believe that you'll surpass whatever trials you'll experience in your marriage life.
and of course, if your relationship is strong enough, what more can you ask for?
@mialei23 (2385)
• Philippines
15 Jul 08
Hi there. I think there's no age requirement for getting married.As long as your mentally and physically and financially stable for this. Some are just getting married for their purposes, but what is the important thing when getting married is to be able to sustain a family. When you get married, both of you will work for your future. This includes your everyday needs. And If a couple is planning to have a children right away they should save a money for the future and health of their children. Some are just getting married because they get pregnant, fixed marriage or just doing the rights of the family, like protecting their wealth..they like that their children should marry a rich or influential people too.I am 27 years old but until now I have no plans to get married, maybe because I am not financially and emotionally ready for this commitment. Thanks for the post and good luck, happy myLot!
@nilouette (632)
• Philippines
15 Jul 08
I think the best "time" not age for marriage is when you are completely ready for it.
@cherrytcy86 (119)
• Malaysia
16 Jul 08
Ya.. girl like to marry earlier cause she can be a beautiful bride. And those guys who dont want to marry the girl when they are young-- really bad. They think of saving the money, cause when the girl marry at old age( over 30) , they will make the wedding simple .. They scare of losing freedom... They scare of the responsiblity of being husband or father... Actually girl want marry to u at young age partly is for the guy own goods also. Girl give born at old age, the children wont be so smart. They will scare u lost ur beloved one as well( old age give birth, got the tisk) .. The girl want marry u fast fast, cause she wanna spend their life with u, she loves u so much de. So, hopees u shall feel pleasure to have such a girl who love u.. got it?